2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Should a modern woman get married? Will she be happy with or without marriage?
It is good for her that she has personal freedom, can be in a state of love and not burden herself with everyday life and obligations to her husband, if he were. Can travel without restrictions.
In the comments, a heated discussion broke out on the topic that they say she still needs to find her man and she will think differently that it is impossible to be fully happy outside of marriage and family!
The other half was in favor of the fact that in modern society a woman is more independent, financially independent than before. And therefore, she can afford to live the way she wants, to be free from social stereotypes and dogmas.
And more recently, communicating with my colleague, a man, a psychoanalyst, I heard the opinion that a woman cannot be considered fully realized in life if she does not give birth to a child. I heard the same opinion in an interview with Tina Kandelaki in the show "Girlfriends" on YouTube.
So what does a woman owe in the modern world?
Does she have a choice? Will she get respect from most women if she doesn't have a child and a husband?
There are many articles and videos that raise the topic of feminism and the role of women in modern society. Before that, I did not know anything about femenism, but since I have liberal views, I support everything new, and if this movement has arisen and continues its activities, then it has followers. It hurts to the quick and does not leave you indifferent.
I know beautiful women who are successful in their careers and who are not married. I am very correct and do not particularly ask about my personal life, like some "Why not married yet?", "Why don't you have children? The clock is ticking!" I understand that if a woman does not have this, then there are reasons for that. And these personal questions are useless.
But I'll tell you a secret, they told me about their novels and loves, where, well, you can’t say that they suffer without marriage!
There are also family friends. And thank God, everything is fine there.
I myself am not married and have no children. But there is a long-term relationship.
And I can say that while still working as a school psychologist, many mothers did not come to me for this very reason! Although I am a child psychologist by education, I also work with children constantly.
I heard in my address "She is so young, but what does she understand? No family, not children." This made my job very difficult. I felt weak and insecure because I was constantly afraid of these questions.
I felt bitter and hurt. And I wanted to never do this again.
And how many women are constantly exposed to such public pressure? In the family, at work, from strangers who, under the guise of "care", ask incorrect questions.
In this regard, I have a question for you. Who is single and without children, have you experienced public censure, pressure?
Who with children and with a husband, have you become more a realized woman than before? And if not for your family, what would you do in life?
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