2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
They say that psychologists do not give ready-made recipes. But I'll try to break the system)))
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The recipe for a strong relationship:
Let's take as a basis UNITY OF VALUES - when partners have the same idea of what role a man plays in a relationship and what a woman; attitude to the birth of children and parenting roles; and in general, the concept of what is good and what is bad. When the views on the life movement of the family are directed in one direction, and not in opposite directions.
Add to the main ingredient FLEXIBILITY … When a man and a woman do not get stuck in any clear social roles, but can change depending on life circumstances. A man can show weakness at some moments, and a woman at this time lead forward and vice versa. Decisions on issues are made based on the competence, experience and knowledge of each of the partners, and not because, for example, the man is the boss in the house and the last word is with him.
Large portion OPEN IN COMMUNICATION … This includes a discussion of problematic, conflict issues, and a desire to share joys and sorrows, and the opportunity to ask for advice and get feedback. The main thing is to make sure that there is respect in the relationship, and there is no fear of condemnation and rejection.
Add TRADITIONS to taste, in order to feel like one team in a relationship. These can be joint trips to a picnic, playing sports, significant dates with gifts and surprises, gardening events, travel, collecting, etc.
A little piquancy is necessary for a relationship in the form INTIMATE PROXIMITY not only for the sake of procreation, but also for the soul and emotional warmth. Here you can give free rein to your imagination, the main thing is to discuss comfort with your partner.
A good handful HUMOR AND LAUGHTER, without them the recipe will be bland and tasteless, so feel free to add this ingredient to your relationship, just make sure that it is not very spicy. And also avoid black humor and ridicule in public, they, on the contrary, spoil the whole recipe and leave an unpleasant aftertaste for a long time.
And finally, we give the opportunity PERSONAL SPACE for everyone, in order to get an important and necessary need for privacy, where you can be alone with yourself to harmonize the personality and, accordingly, the relationship itself.
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