Successful Choice

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

The article "Successful? How is it? " I promised to take a closer look at the choice of a successful person. Today.

The huge problem of modern man is that supply outstrips demand. Our body, personality structure, circumstances would accurately and accurately suggest what we need here and now. But most are not accustomed to this. More precisely, they are weaned, since it is normal for any living organism to want something. Here he is, when he is born, and he knows: I want to eat. Bam - the milk has gone. Sweet. Good. I want my teeth to stop hurting. Bam - the milk has gone. Sweet. Distracted. I want to express my indignation. Bam - the milk has gone … Ai, okay!

The funny thing is that as adults we are shoved all the same milk. I want … What? Bam - a restaurant under the nose. That's right, sit and eat. And in no case should you avoid melancholy and irritation, because it is so unsuccessful. Meanwhile, this fed-up irritation, if we heard it, would help us understand what we really wanted. After a while it comes again. And we already know for sure: the world does not consist of food alone.

We are hungry for something else. Most likely, for something from the wheel of success from of the previous article about successful people.

But how do you know what exactly? Dozens of proposals are ready. Travel, entertainment, sports …

And these are often good offers. The question is, do they suit you personally.

What if they take away your time and energy without giving you what you want in return?

In business, everything is the same, only the risks are more obvious.

There are two points of vulnerability: the highest takeoff point and the lowest fall. Positive emotions are exhausting as well as negative ones. At the peak of experiences, a person becomes weak and absent-minded, which will not be slow to take advantage of everyone who wants to push through an unfavorable or dangerous offer.

And if we are talking about a crisis, then everyone who wants to throw up your trouble with their hands, including friends and close people. There is only one way out - to stop choosing from the proposed, to grab onto whatever is horrible, but cute, and finally listen to yourself.

Another confusing factor has been added recently. Life is poignant, and not always our choice. Modernity offers a peculiar sweetness of heroism. This also leads to an extreme peak of experiences. It's an honor to be a hero. It's great to be a hero. Being a hero does not provide for the rear in any way, not to say it destroys it.

A successful person considers both factors. He is far from the idea of building his own ideal world in a troubled society - we are well aware of the examples of those who followed this path and ended their careers in the most deplorable way. But investing does not mean being thrown into nowhere. Investing in a social uplift, a successful person knows for sure: he helps a partner with whom he can develop on an equal footing. The expectation that a grateful society will pick up, embrace, blow away the dust particles and put on a pedestal ends with adolescence. Next - himself-himself-himself.

The expectation of gratitude is indeed a sign of childhood.

I drew a picture - young people.

I washed the dishes - smart girl.

I didn’t go to play football, but did my homework and vacuumed the rug - the hero.

So yes, youngster and hero. The reward here is self-esteem praise. But this useful thing is unconsciously shifted from the other: the youngster will listen to compliments and go to eat, and maybe even get a particularly tasty piece of cake for dinner. And the cake is associated in his mind with praise. Both must be issued and received. Mom-dad will sometimes help for educational purposes, and the hero himself is not yet able to share parental pride and parental responsibility to feed the child. In adulthood, there is a risk of transferring the image of mom-dad-grandmother to society. And it is not ready to foul. Praise - perhaps. And that is not always the case. Feed? Why would you?

An adult successful person chooses an adult responsibility. In practice, this means that, realizing the value of praise and friendship with society, a successful person does not forget about the need to take care of himself and his business on his own so as not to become at some point a burden to others and not turn into an accusing loser.

The main choice of a successful person is the choice of maturity.