2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Have you noticed that any event can be interpreted in completely different ways? A simple example is a phone call. Your friend calls and asks for a service. The current conversation can be interpreted as a plea for help that only you can provide, shameless arrogance emanating from the interlocutor, or groundless humiliation - why are you again a rug, on which they will again wipe your feet?
Before you had time to look back, the call was made. Evening came, then the evening of the next day, and now you are wondering why the mood is so dry, tasteless, like olives from a jar of olives, from which the marinade was poured, but the olives remained.
Note that with all the abundance of interpretation options, a negative interpretation is perceived mainly as correct, and a positive one - incorrect. Even if a positive interpretation works like a plaster hastily stuck to a scratch, a bitter aftertaste will inevitably remain in the stomach. As if he had lied to himself. It makes it uncontrollably disgusting.
Any of us, without exception, knows how manipulation burns out from within. We know what self-deception tastes like. We are so obsessed with the desire to catch each other in a lie that we forget that the main liar is our mind, and that laziness to dig inside leads to a plastic and empty, silicone life.
How can you tell a lie from a truth?
1. Learn to feel. The ability to introspect (reflect, be aware of the activity of the ego), to listen to the voice of inner correctness is a skill worthy of ten thousand hours. Inside, we always know what is right.
2. Learn to hear the voice of intuition. The voice of intuition is always quiet and gentle. He is not intrusive. It sounds calm. The voice of intuition is always for us. Hearing the voice of intuition, we feel relief: on the psychic level, relief is felt as a release of tension; on the bodily - as loosening the clamp, relaxation, lightness, freedom.
3. Ask a question to the Universe. The Universe, being an extension of us, manifests itself in accordance with the state in which we are. The incessant dance of energies is fraught with answers to any questions. You can refer to your continuation in the form of the Universe in writing or orally. Language, intonation, emotion - none of this matters. The main thing is focused intention, openness and curiosity, a willingness to learn and accept any answer. To see if this is the right answer, see # 2: The right answer always feels like relief.
4. For the existentially daring readers: Work on expanding the boundaries of the individual. Personality boundary is an abstract feature that separates “I” from “not-I”. In reality, everything is one. Any boundaries are conventions conducive to divine play. The wider the space with which a person identifies himself, the faster and more smoothly there is a dialogue between points in this space. As a result, each of us can come to the realization that communicating with the universe, we enter into a dialogue with ourselves. Identifying with infinity, the unified consciousness remembers and recognizes any object, thought and feeling as a form of Itself. The interaction between the forms is accelerated, the sense of correctness is intensified.
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