2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
A ship that does not know where to sail - any wind will not be fair.
I suggest you get acquainted with the TOP-5 most dangerous mistakes on the way to the goal
Checklist of blunders when moving towards the goal
The first mistake
Refusal to form an intention to move towards a goal
- to run away from the problem (think about what I don't want, instead of what I want);
- do what makes no sense (if a person does not know why he is doing this, he will sabotage). We do what we see meaning in;
- Excessive focus on the result and ignoring the effects (what will happen when this happens).
The second error
Refusal from clear formation of context criteria
- formulation of the goal without the place and time of its implementation
(where? - on the moon? when? - in the third millennium?)
Error three
The misconception that there are no resources to achieve the goal
- not to wonder who can help;
- do not ask for help from friends, relatives, acquaintances;
- not wonder what abilities are needed;
- do not ask yourself what knowledge is needed for this.
Mistake four
Lack of a plan for achieving the goal
- have only one option for action;
- do not divide the goal into subgoals and tasks;
- do not highlight control points;
Error five
Lack of description of the realized goal,
- not understand the criteria for a realized goal (how to understand that the goal has been achieved);
- doing the same thing, waiting to get a new result;
- do not accept gifts from the world on the way to the goal;
- do not go into the position of an observer to search for new opportunities;
- to show excessive importance to the goal.
Analyze:
- what purpose do you formulate (about what I want, or about what I don’t want?)
- how detailed do you describe the desired result?
- do you take into account the result of the result (effect)?
- Do you find meaning in what you are doing?
- can you imagine where, when and with whom you want to realize this goal?
- what happens when you reach your goal?
- what resources might you need?
- what kind of people and how can they help?
- what abilities and knowledge are needed?
- do you have a plan and how many options for its implementation?
- are you trying to get everything and at once or divide it into parts and easily implement it step by step?
- learn from your mistakes?
- how do you get feedback from the world while moving towards your goal?
- are you looking at the system from the outside or are you just an element of the system?
- do you realize that you control the movement towards the goal, and not the goal by you?
What conclusions did you make?
- what did you get when you got acquainted with this information?
- what would you change?
- why do you need these changes?
- how will you apply them in your life?
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