2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
In life, everything is very simple, on the one hand, but on the other hand, it is too complicated. Every day we observe a completely diverse spectrum of emotions, feelings, views, empathize in some way, resist in some way … Life goes on and everything changes.. Sometimes attitudes and views that seemed to us invincible can collapse like a sand castle under the severity of the circumstances … “Never say never.” Anything can happen.
This is a story about those whose lives were full of some kind of barriers and frameworks, sometimes reasonably justified, and sometimes completely meaningless
A diverse society with various spheres … It has developed among the people that the majority of women who have not become mothers, have not married, are concentrated in education, science and medicine. And without pretending to be scientific proof, I will say that, unfortunately, I myself noticed such a sad picture.
Here you look at a university teacher from a student's bench, you involuntarily think that you are pretty, bright, educated, but so lonely … And twenty years later you accidentally meet her on the street, and she somehow sighs like a child, with regret: "I gave my whole life science … ". And how many of these are among our acquaintances, relatives, friends who have devoted their entire lives to professional search to the detriment of personal happiness.
Sometimes it happens. A woman over forty, lonely, living with her mother … And then he appears! In most cases, younger than her, but according to some laws known only from above, she is attracted to this lady … And again a multicolored gamut of emotions! "I am afraid that he will leave me," the woman shares with her friends … "I am afraid of what people will say" … "What will my mother think?" … And she is left alone with the principles. And then mom is gone, and friends have their families, their worries …
Was it necessary to be afraid of what people would say? Was it so important to get mom's approval? A sad picture of our days. And after all, not a childfree, but an ordinary woman, but in the slavery of her convictions … Since childhood, dreaming of a wedding dress, but never tried it on in adult life … But how many are there?
Low self-esteem, an inferiority complex, in most cases imposed by the mother, separation from the mother that did not take place in time, insecurity, fear of relationships (in most cases, without psychosexual trauma, and again, mother's upbringing - "sex only with her husband", "sex is dirty " etc.). And already on the eve of menopause something clicks in my head, but it is already too late …
Dear women, colleagues! Do not be afraid and dare! Believe, everything is in your hands! Fall in love, wish, give birth! Do not drive away happiness from yourself in the form of a warm lump, sweetly smacking its lips on your chest … After all, this is the Destiny …
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