2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
"There is no one to relate to" - many women think, and quite rightly. This often happens: you want a relationship with all your heart, you are looking for a loved one, but as luck would have it, nobody likes it. Or vice versa - it happened, fell in love, found! And a man is completely indifferent, does not notice you, or even worse - he directly makes it clear that you are not needed, not his field is a berry.
It can be offensive and unpleasant. But more often than not, many women simply toil, remaining in a latent state - neither two nor one and a half. They, in fact, are not looking for anyone. Since they know in their hearts that they may not like it, they may not meet the expectations of a man. Or he himself will not live up to their expectations. Why then perform a complex ritual of acquaintance, recognition, grinding to each other?
Better to lie at home on the couch, like Bridget Jones, eat mountains of buns of sandwiches, wear comfortable "grandmother's panties", and at worst - keep a diary of failures.
It's really easier than taking responsibility for yourself, turning something around in life, reconsidering your priorities. After all, if HE appears, the main work is yet to be done. You will have to build relationships, take care of your appearance, it is possible to change your usual way of life.
Therefore, due to their own internal attitudes, many women continue to be alone, or in an eternal search, which in fact they do not lead.
The phenomenon of subconscious loneliness, the convenience of usual life, unwillingness to change anything - this is the syndrome of "functional" grandmother's cowards, in which Bridget Jones went on her first date.
In order to live in a new way, restructuring is needed. And you can start it right now, no matter how strange it sounds - without getting up from the couch. It’s only better to push the sweets away from you. Pick up a tablet or other gadget and enroll, for example, in sketching or web design courses. Chat with new people, find friends with the same interests.
You yourself will not notice how you will be drawn into the process, and not by artificially building your own happiness, but by a natural exciting business. Here, appearance is not in the first place, and clothes are not matched to the object of desires. Everything is organic, natural, and most likely, this will lead to the real fulfillment of your desires.
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