2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
My new story. How not to suffer or One moment from the life of a psychologist
I watch my thoughts float through me, wrapping around my head and neck with coils of a necklace made of words strung on threads of meanings and themes, stories and scenarios, which, in turn, are woven from pictures and sounds seen and heard today, yesterday, a hundred years ago, me, or maybe my great-great-grandmother Anastasia … Thoughts are floating by.. What do I care when I am Life itself today, now … People one by one come to ask me: "How not to suffer?" … "I don't know.. "- I quietly answer, wrapping myself with tender warmth in my heart in my favorite blanket of rhymes and words and dreams …" Everyone has their own way to themselves … "" But how not to suffer? " … "Do you hear how wonderful the sound of your stomping feet, your loud angry voice?" The girl looks at me in surprise: "You don't understand me?" you, past me, past your future children and grandchildren, is it so important what these thoughts are about? It is only important that now you are Life, just like me, like this cat under your feet, a flower on the windowsill, the sky, the sun and the snow outside the window … "The girl looked out the window and smiled:" Indeed I am Life, I am a part of it now and I do not suffer at this moment. " I wrapped myself in my blanket of scraps of phrases and words, woven by my grandmother Ekaterina and noticed how an old thought from my past floated past me and the girl: “It's okay that today we have nowhere to sleep and have nothing to eat … lay them on black stones in amazing patterns. " When the thought wagged its tail around the corner of my office, escaping, like all previous thoughts, I was startled by the new sound. The girl got up from the sofa and went to the exit: "It's so easy not to suffer!"
How long have you been alone with your thoughts? What do you think about at such moments?
(c) Yulia Latunenko
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