Live Or Suffer. How Ignorance Of Generic Laws Does Not Absolve Us Of Responsibility

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Each of us is a part of the Bigger. A small particle of a huge family and clan system. Tasks, processes and crises can pass through us, our destiny and life. Because all systems develop and grow according to their own order. And the generic system is no exception.

A large generic soul has six orders, six laws that move it, through the violation of which it evolves.

And we violate them, its grains. Our ancestors also violated them.

Any suffering that can stretch over several generations is a wake-up call that somehow we live wrong, we go wrong, we do the wrong thing, we don't choose ourselves, we adapt too often to others, betraying ourselves. This is how the responsibility for breaking the law comes. But this is a soft responsibility.

A heavy responsibility comes with a severe crisis - when losses and suicides, serious illnesses and chronic lack of money sweep through several generations. When no matter what a person does, there is no way out and nothing happens. As if heavier waves closed over his head. And then they often say "I feel that I am going to the bottom, that nothing else can be changed." And there is such an option too.

You can hide from knowledge as much as you like and convince yourself that this is all nonsense. You can convince yourself as much as you like that no generic system influences me, and if I want to then turn the world around, just watch the serial.

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Just look back at your life. What is more in it? Suffering or life itself?

Family hearth. Why family secrets affect the lives of generations

I often hear from women and men "yes there are no secrets in my family." And if a person persists in this very strongly. So, there definitely is! He just doesn't know anything about them. If everyone knows about the secret, then what kind of secret is it?

Often a family secret is hidden behind many serious illnesses, addictions or a difficult life - joyless and filled with losses.

This is some kind of event - murder, theft, treason, illegitimate child, abortion, miscarriage, rape, incest, crime - about which the participants were silent and did not tell anyone anything. This event was accompanied by difficult experiences and silence about it is also associated with toxic feelings - mainly shame and guilt. And all of this is always ignored. I don’t want to remember what happened, I don’t want to think about it, you inspire yourself “I don’t feel anything, there was nothing”. And this is enough for an event with difficult experiences to be supplanted, excluded from the life of a family, the knowledge of which was possessed by one or at most two people.

Centuries can pass, and for no reason at all, shame or guilt suddenly rolls over the descendant and the person stops himself - refuses his career, because then he will become visible and noticeable. Refuses his money, how can you live well when everyone is bad. He refuses himself, because one should always think only of others, otherwise what the neighbors will say about him.

Shame and guilt accompany a person always and everywhere, and also fear and panic - from scratch, unreasonable and inadequate.

How it works? Everything that we try to forget, ignore, exclude from reality, as if it never happened and I was not at all involved in it - it becomes even more and more destructive.

This is how you can live for generations. This starts repetition. That which is excluded must be lived again - and only when we give the rejected a place - it calms down, because it is embedded in the ancestral memory and the chain of repetitions is interrupted.

Do you think there is an influence of family secrets on your life?

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