2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
STOP BLAMING OTHERS
Friends, you are constantly asking questions, but you yourself do not even understand what you want.
Women make claims to their husbands, and then regret it. Men shout at their wives, then worry.
And all this comes from the fact that your state is a complete neurosis.
To prevent this from happening again, understand yourself!
There is no point in blaming others, the situation does not change from this.
Find the reasons that piss you off, do not shift the responsibility to others.
This irritation is within you!
To everyone who writes to me, I answered.
Some went to work, some preferred to continue such a relationship, without realizing that they only need to look within themselves!
I also receive such letters when people write that they went to a psychologist or other specialists for several years, but nothing has changed …
I want to explain this to you:
Indeed, the excavation does not give the desired result if it is just an analysis of beliefs.
You need to disassemble the feelings that are inside you, they need to be unblocked. And if you have already decided to change the situation and life completely, realizing that you need to understand yourself, then….
Then do not forget about working with the body! To understand what I am talking about, observe what happens in your body in those moments when something goes wrong.
Feel the tension in your body. Here is your answer.
Any problem can be disassembled by paying attention, not only to what is inherent in the subconscious, BUT ALSO IN THE BODY!
It is the body that reacts to all your desires and actions! It is this that interferes with your movement towards goals!
CONCLUSION: Stop blaming others and understand yourself!
Stop living the same scenarios!
Ilana Mitval!
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