2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Often, in order to make our life more fulfilling, it is necessary to conduct an audit. There are days, periods in which we feel ourselves in a hopeless situation, the future seems uncertain, everyone around is doing well, but we are not particularly. At such moments, we look at life in relation to the point in which we are, and not in relation to our whole life. We do not see the situation globally.
What am I doing this for?
We all know our date of birth. This is point "A" at which we began our life's journey. The length of this path, point "B", no one knows. We cannot influence how long our life will last. However, we are able to influence its width.
What is the breadth of our life?
In fact, this is what we fill every day.
Job. What is she like? Favorite or not. Do you want to go for it. How do you communicate with the team. Do you keep a balance between work and personal time? And, perhaps, you only live by work, and have not gone on vacation for a long time.
Friends, family. Who are the people with whom you spend the most time. What is your relationship. Do you have mutual respect, common interests, love, acceptance, mutual assistance. This is a one-sided game, or you are mutually drawn to each other.
Leisure. What do you do in your free time. What are you interested in? Do you satisfy your interests, or find a reason not to pamper yourself. Someone is inspired by travel, dance, music festivals. Someone likes to retire and fix an old car in the garage, make furniture, swim with fish in underwater fishing. Does this have a place in your life?
Dreams and desires. To what extent are you implementing and implementing them? After all, if not ourselves, then who will help us with our dreams? It is important to think over a plan and act. Anything you really want comes true. And if something hasn't arrived yet, it may be necessary to look at the fears.
Attitude towards the world. If you think that the whole world is against you, everyone around you is to blame, then most likely you are limiting the breadth of your life. Remember the cartoon "Little Raccoon"?
- Little Raccoon, go to the pond, and don't take a stick with you. And don't make faces. AND SMILE!
-And nothing more? Are you sure?..
Somewhere like that. As we are to people, so they are to us.
All this makes our every day wider, filling it with joy, satisfaction and happiness.
The breadth of our lives is also how we feel about ourselves. Do we allow ourselves to relax, rest, do nothing. Are we surrounding ourselves with pleasant things? Do we use our favorite dishes every day (or keep them in sideboards, like our ancestors), do we wear nice clothes, do we eat delicious food. Are there such expressions in our vocabulary as “sorry for myself”, “why should I do this for myself alone, if there was a family”.
Analyze the above. Review different aspects of your life. Change what doesn't work for you. Give up what upsets you.
Well, do not forget that an ordinary dinner with store-bought dumplings, but by candlelight, will create a pleasant atmosphere for you and fill you with positive emotions. Therefore, use different things that brighten the day and make it festive.
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