2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
I am writing this article for my client. Let's call her Marina.
Marina is successful in her career, a pretty, well-groomed woman lawyer. She divorced her husband long ago, lives alone with her student daughter.
Marina has a long-standing but sluggish relationship with a colleague.
Maxim immediately said that he was not ready for a serious relationship. He, too, has been divorced for a long time, lives alone.
Their relationship with Marina outwardly resembles the relationship of two teenagers, although both are forty years old and both are respected people. They correspond in the messenger. Maxim often jokes, and Marina sometimes takes offense. Sometimes she blacklists Maxim. Time passes, the woman calms down and "releases" Maxim from the ban.
Marina, like any woman, would like more, for example:
- live with Maxim,
- travel,
- walk around the city,
- go to the theater.
And Maxim is one program. He invites Marina only to visit him. He jokes merrily, takes good care of her, treats her to dinner. However, all this does not happen often and only in Maxim's apartment.
A woman correctly evaluates the situation, does not harbor illusions about the development of these relations, but constantly doubts:
In this relationship, no matter how strange it may sound, there are advantages:
- Permanent partner
- Quality sex
- Legal colleagues always have something to talk about
- Maxim, in general, is an erudite, interesting conversationalist
- Both have family experiences and have grown-up children.
- no need to hide from anyone and report to anyone
However, women are so arranged that they want more.
Marina is registered on a dating site, but she is rarely there.
- For some reason, all interesting and sociable men are married and do not even hide it! - says Marina.
Her previous relationship was with just such a married man.
There is a feeling that a woman unconsciously chooses men who are not suitable for creating a family.
We remember that Maxim immediately said that he was not ready for serious complications and that the other man did not hide that he was married!
In a situation like this, you can do a simple exercise
- Write on the sheet: "My relationship with …."
- Divide the sheet in half, where one side is about the pros, and the other about the minuses of this relationship.
- List the pros and cons
- Calculate
- To conclude.
Often, financially independent, women have many benefits not to start a family, but for some reason they are not ready to admit this even to themselves. Helping them figure out what these benefits are is the task of a specialist.
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