2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
When food is delicious, it plays with tastes and contrasts. The feeling of pleasure spreads not only in the mouth, it spreads throughout the body, every cell can feel the taste. I want to stay with this aftertaste, fix it, remembering again and again. And the choice next time will be predetermined by the taste, the experience of goodness. You will want to experience it again, enjoy it. You will want to return to where it is delicious …
When communication with a person is delicious, you want more and more, to experience a state of pleasure from the presence of another. Relax, feel safe, let in "no tension", be yourself. A pleasant aftertaste, they bring back the memory again and again, again and again the face breaks into a smile. Fragments are spinning in my head like in a movie. And there are no thoughts, but is it necessary? Time is found to talk, meet, pay attention. Driven by this desire, to get the sensations of pleasantness, pleasure, relaxation, and deliciousness again and again. And it doesn't matter if they are friends, acquaintances, colleagues, husbands or wives, we know this feeling of goodness.
When it is tasty, there is a place for desire, desire, relaxation, creativity, there is energy.
When it is not tasty, we know it, there is no desire, there is no energy.
Compensation, substitution of goodies from communication with goodies from a large amount of food (alcohol), only hunger for goodies in communication, this does not close. The more food (alcohol), the more it increases.
A lot of "SHOULD, SHOULD" is hidden in non-goodies. We must eat, we must not eat, we must communicate, we must earn money, we must do it right, we must be satisfied, we must correct ourselves, must achieve, must do, must not do … Such a puzzle, a dilemma of choice without choice, the idea that it is imperative to choose, and choose the right one, and the right choice is where "must" and "must".
But in fact, there is no right choice, or rather, there is no right choice for everyone. There is the right choice for me as a specific person. He is not from the "Should", he is in the zone of personal goodies. The perception of goodness is very individual.
Anticipating a common question: How is it? So what, not doing what you should? - And everyone will have their own answer. Do you want to? Do they really have to? And why do you personally hold on to this debt? What is there?
Delicacy fills life with colors, the desire to live, desires, openness, joy, it becomes interesting, curious. In such states it is easier to cope with surprises, to adapt to the surrounding world. The world from the state of goodness looks different, it’s like a different reality … When it’s delicious, you want more of these sensations, and there is energy for this.
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