2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Plots of fairy tales and myths can help us in many ways with wisdom. However, it is important not just to read them, but to be able to decipher them. Conclusions, or more precisely, the knowledge that the specialist made about the relationship, as a result of the analysis of fairy tales.
Meeting of partners, the birth of love. There are common points of contact, but there is also a difference of views. As a rule, partners complement each other, and this both attracts and repels them. At the beginning of the relationship, the “law of complement” is in effect. He, by himself, carries an intrigue. A couple, despite the feeling of being in love and togetherness, may be worried about the mismatch between partners. Each of them, as it were, shows the other what he needs to learn. In this situation, the most important thing is not to compete with each other. In union, man and woman acquire new strength. Meanwhile, one must not forget about the strength of each of them. The moment will come when both he and she will have to deal with the development of their own strength, their own talent
Parting. This is a symbolic point of completion of the first period of the relationship. In order for the strength of the union to be renewed, and the vibration of love to be kept in it, each of the partners must develop and renew. Only in this case will he bring new energy into the union. Therefore, a symbolic separation is necessary. As a rule, this is a period of lapping and quarrels
Individual way. Each of the partners goes their own way of development regarding relations and interaction with each other. It is important that they exchange information periodically. Following their own path should lead a man and a woman to a clear understanding of each other's place in their own lives. On this basis, you can make decisions about the final separation or continuation of the relationship
The final. This is the renewal of relations, i.e. transition to a new stage, more harmonious or final separation. He and She can let go of each other with gratitude and forgiveness, completing the plot of the relationship. The choice is ours
The main fairy lesson is to understand that the relationship between a woman and a man is an extremely mobile, changeable substance. You can "let it go". But in this case, if there is little knowledge, you can fall into all sorts of traps, set in abundance on the roads of love. And you can subtly care about relationships, understanding their dynamics, encrypted in ancient plots.
Based on the book "He and She", T. Zinkevich-Estigneeva
The main thing here, perhaps, is a kind of awakening, a period of separation, or quarrels, which brings chaos into the couple and forces the partners to reconsider the relationship. This happens in all pairs. You should not avoid these moments, or end the relationship because of them.
You need to focus on how you can personally influence the situation. And it's important to start with yourself. Only through ourselves can we heal our own reactions and improve relationships. Moreover, if you have knowledge (and they do, since you are reading this), share it with your partner. Ask about his willingness to develop both independently, to explore himself, and as a couple.
I wish you success, love and respect for each other.
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