Each Couple Has A Nanny

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

The nanny is a sweet young girl under one meter eighty, with beautiful features, graceful forms and a caring, gentle, sensitive attitude towards your child.

Which of these is more important - it's up to you to choose. For me, the nanny is the very harmony for the child (and his parents), which does not interfere at all …

Why is it needed at all?

Well, firstly, in order to at mom and dad periodically there was time for each other. Have you ever thought about how often families break up due to the banal reason for the lack of privacy in the bedroom? A child with his appearance often takes up all the space in the house (and the head of mom and dad). He must be dressed-undressed-walked-fed-bathed. And older - to all of the above, he adds to do homework, to talk about events in his life, to find time to prepare things for him for school or garden, to wash his shoes … Given this workload, the bed in the bedroom, in general, is, may not wait for you … not to see her love pleasures.

Babysitting in this regard is a good decision.… And no one says that she should be present at your home 24 hours a day. The good news is that thanks to agencies you can hire a nanny for any amount of time per day or per week. For example - for a couple of evenings or for one Sunday. Grandparents, by the way, are also excellent nannies, working, as a rule, on a 2 to 5 schedule (weekends work, weekdays rest). A weekend with grandchildren is the dream and joy of our older generation (and our regular intimate life … well, that is, saving our marriage!)

The second reason why it is worth letting a stranger into the house (again, perhaps for a minimum amount of time) is the appearance a good friend and companion for your child, and an additional incentive for parents. Parents are often jealous of their children to other adults (even to the same grandmothers), and if they get divorced and build on quite favorable relationships - you should definitely be jealous of those who "stole" your heifer … or heifer. The good relations of children with these people are perceived as detrimental to themselves. "What if he (a) becomes better for the child than me?" But few people think that such third parties (and we started here about the nanny) well stimulate the parents themselves to develop relationships with children, the emergence of productive communication, the emergence of common interests and family traditions. Yes, you may have to compete with a nanny in the eyes of a child (or a husband - emphasize the necessary), but such competition in wise female hands is only for the benefit of the family. In the end, a woman can skillfully take revenge on her husband for his views on the outstanding forms of a nanny, using the fox's gaze, the panther's gait and the technical capabilities of solitude …

More a nanny can be useful during the school period of the child … Mathematics, Russian, the world around us … Of course, ideally, when a child does his homework on his own, he sits so focused. And he succeeds in everything, and he understands everything. But is it often possible to meet such a situation in real life? If your child is still a first grader, it is quite possible to accustom him and yourself to such a situation, but, for example, from the fifth grade, when the child is already accustomed to helping loved ones in the lessons, finding time and strength for parents tired after work is very difficult. In this case, the nanny can be a nanny, an experienced grandmother (caring grandfather), or a tutor. In general, any third party you trust.

It's good to have a nanny in case of shopping. What is shopping with kids? An excruciatingly painful process, a bunch of unnecessary or frustrated spending (depending on the mood of the parents), a state close to hysteria in the whole family, well seasoned with problems like: "I want to pee" or "I want to woo."A nanny for a couple of hours in the face of a grandmother, aunt, a friend, or the nanny herself does not hurt. This will save you time, keep you emotionally stable, and spend time with each other. Indeed, in the process of shopping, you can also discuss some everyday nuances …

Where and how else to apply a nanny or just a third party - it's up to you … If you think that no third person in your world of communication with a child is unacceptable - this is also your choice. But remember - the bed should periodically creak properly from mother's passion and father's accumulated strength. And children from happy and satisfied parents radiate unimaginable warmth.

Good luck! And yes, about the peculiarities of the nanny's appearance, of course, I had to joke … but if in your ideas this person should be just like that - who dares to interfere with you?..