2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Each person has their own model of getting sex. Everyone wants sex. But if you give a person sex not according to his model, then the person will refuse sex.
So where does each person's model of getting sex come from?
In humans, like in animals, biological contours are formed - Imprinting. (Imprinting is the fixation of certain information in memory and dependence on it.) An example of imprinting is a child's attachment to his parents and parents to children. This is one of the first circuits that are formed in our subconscious for our survival.
When the time comes for the first sexual experience, it is also imprinted in every person and then the person unconsciously or consciously strives to repeat this experience.
But here everything is not much more complicated, because the formation of how and in what conditions the first sexual contact takes place is also very much influenced by the upbringing and attitude of parents to sex, and the first porn that a person saw. They form a sensory-emotional basis for open interaction with other people or the impossibility of this interaction. However, sexuality in every person is very strong, it is like a sprout that can grow through the asphalt. And therefore, in fantasies, self-expression in the way of interaction, various kinds of stable connections and ways are formed that allow one to express oneself in this area, despite all the limitations of the mind and dogma.
And in general, against the background of all this, a person forms a fairly stable model of receiving sex and, accordingly, giving it. As well as fairly stable fantasies and reactions to them.
Sometimes a person himself is ashamed or not pleasant to have his fantasies and a formed biological circuit in this matter, but in fact he does not control them.
Of course, the issue of making corrections to imprinting (reprogramming) is also possible, but it is almost impossible to do it yourself. However, it is possible, but difficult.
If you are interested in talking about this in more depth, you can turn to a personal consultation.
Or write your questions in the comments, and I will answer them in the next posts.
Recommend for viewing
Mark Gangor talks about imprinting and about the formation and differences of sexual tastes in men and women in a very lively and interesting way. I recommend watching this video of his, as well as others.
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