2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Acceptance is the opposite of patience. When you endure, then if you accept, then with pain and disgust.
Acceptance is akin to calmness. The more you accept, the more gifts from life. Read the parable in it for the answer to the question: how to accept your life?
Remember one thing: what you cannot change must be accepted.
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The Parable of the Host Monk: How to Receive
If you are in agreement with yourself, then you easily accept and enter into agreement with anything.
In one village there was a girl whose parents did not agree with her dating a guy from another village. The girl did not accept the restrictions of her parents and walked up the baby from the guy.
When she gave birth, the parents did not accept the baby and began to pry from their daughter who his father is.
The daughter was afraid of the punishment for her disobedience and pointed to a monk living on the edge of the village.
The parents grabbed the baby and carried him to the monk with the words: "You conceived, you and bring up."
The monk humbly accepted the child with a serene smile on his face and began to educate him as his son.
The daughter could not accept the loss of the child, her maternal feelings leaped up. She threw herself at the feet of her parents, confessed and confessed everything.
Parents resigned themselves to the choice of their daughter and sent matchmakers to another village. And they themselves went to the monk. They told him: "Give the boy, for he is not your son."
And again the monk handed the child into the hands of these people with a smile on his face.
Soon a wedding was held in the house of those people and everyone healed happily.
People say that everyone who met that monk was surprised by his calm smile.
If you read carefully, you noticed that life is a flow and it flows freely from whether you accept it or not.
However, with acceptance, you go with the flow with little effort.
Resisting the flow of life, you will soon be exhausted and may even go to the bottom.
What can prevent you from accepting your life as it is:
Many people do not accept themselves and their lives, they are in constant resistance and struggle.
- the presence of an intrapersonal conflict between want and need,
- disbelief in my abilities, helplessness, I cannot, I cannot cope,
- fears, fear of living,
- lack of discipline and weak spirit,
- the habit of getting effortlessly,
- low self-esteem.
The main thing that prevents you from accepting your life is the lack of self-acceptance.
Conclusion: to accept your life, you need to accept and love yourself.
Recommendation: you find it difficult to accept yourself and your life - contact the author of the article, self-acceptance often begins when someone accepted you.
Do you accept yourself and everything that happens to you in life?
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