2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Teachers at school and other wonderful, a couple of heads higher people from our childhood, more often focused on mistakes in text, speech, writing, content, actions, as it would be better in their opinion, and not on what is really good it worked for us children. With kind and caring motives, a person grows up with a fear of failure.
It is not surprising that, growing up with fear of failure, we often do not pay attention to what we are good at, what our advantage and talent are, but out of habit we evaluate what we failed, what could be improved, corrected, change. After all, we have always had and still have something to strive for. To some eternally incomprehensible and illusory ideal.
Those who continue to look for flaws, blunders, flaws, shortcomings in themselves and others for the company - slow down! Think, look carefully, like a monkey for a flea, and what did you do well? What did you do? Where are you awesome? What do you like about yourself? If it is difficult for yourself, ask a person close to you - what, in his opinion, are you special about? I am sure that you will definitely find one significant thing.
Yes, there will always be people in the environment who are smarter and more experienced, and yes, there will always be room for us to grow.
Here is just one remark - are you satisfied? To who you are, who you are, where are you? At least sometimes. Or lashing yourself with a whip is so familiar that it is impossible to slow down and look around in principle.
Pause. Pauses are important.
And strive to score well enough 👌
I wish you inspiration and creativity, because this is the basis of life.
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