Intuition As A Means Of Preventing Manipulation - The Insight Of A Transcendental Psychologist

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Before unraveling the tangle of manipulation and learning how to resolve any conflict, imagine the two-faced person you know. Someone immediately came to mind, right?

What is his duplicity? Usually two-faced people are known as manipulators: and for good reason. A person who is "chameleon" during communication resorts to this manner of conversation for a reason. Any manipulation is based on an unmet need that a person cannot communicate directly.

Dealing with a two-faced person is inexpressibly difficult. It is difficult to trust such a person, and it is not possible to express your dissatisfaction: the words that the chameleon utters carry the most optimistic prospects. But every time a switch is triggered inside: as soon as such a person turns to us with any remark, we literally feel the insincerity emanating from him. And no matter how much we talk about ourselves: they say, he speaks so well and correctly, and does not seem to attack verbally, and in general it is my fault that I cannot trust such a wonderful person - something inside us turns out to be twisted, it costs us enter into dialogue with the chameleon. And even without having an objective opportunity to catch the manipulator of the deliberate harm that he inflicts on us, we each time feel that something is wrong with this person.

Another example of a person who makes us doubt our own adequacy is an optimist who is always positive, with shining eyes, with some irresistible zeal, who claims that he is always happy, that we create our own reality, and that our happiness depends from U. S. And although the above statements are the basis of the worldview of a healthy person who understands how the Universe is formed, it can be difficult to communicate with such a “spiritual guru of the office of everything”. It is interesting that inside of us, when communicating with this person, again, as if reluctantly, the same switch is triggered, which suggests that something is unclean.

The ability to remove the energy message and the true emotional state of a person is embedded in our genes

In most human relationships today, insincerity is overflowing. This happens because in childhood, parents tell us that part of our real emotions that we really experience are a) wrong; b) is invented by ourselves. In psychology, this technique is called gaslighting. Gaslighting in everyday form is when you feel one thing, but others behave as if it does not exist, and as if something else is present instead.

Growing up among gaslighters is traumatic, but in view of the level of emotional unsoundness of modern society, everyone faces emotional gaslighting to some extent. Simply put, at an early age we all learn the same thing: emotions are our enemies; unwanted emotions must be suppressed; positive emotions must be experienced constantly, even if it constantly implies forcibly; we cannot trust emotions, and if an emotion suddenly emerges inside, we must cope with it using intellect - rational thinking.

In all this process, the sixth sense - or, to put it more modernly scientifically, the ability to intuitively recognize non-verbal signals that express the true state of affairs - continues to work in us without stopping. That is why we always feel that a person is insincere, and subconsciously move away from him - even if his words express the opposite!

The intuitive perception of the energy message that reflects a repressed human need is constantly working. For some of us, in order to believe what our heart has heard, it is necessary to receive authoritative confirmation. This confirmation is in this very article! Therefore, the next time your instinct tells you that there is a huge gap between the words and the intention of your interlocutor, be sure that it does not seem to you.

Lilia Cardenas, transcendental psychologist, psychotherapist