2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
People often choose to live on standby. In other words, they have a belief that everything in their life will work out, by itself. At the same time, as a rule, in the life of such people there are quite a few events with a minus sign. They often find themselves in unpleasant situations in different areas of life. It can be conflicts in the family or relationships, misunderstanding on the part of parents and loved ones, difficulties at work, both with colleagues and with bosses.
At the same time, they do nothing in order to somehow improve the situation in their lives. In many ways, their behavior pattern is similar to holding a child on the eve of New Year's holidays, when he is waiting for gifts. People with similar convictions expect the same gifts from life.
Interestingly, they often refer to the fact that they cannot change anything and believe that everything is in the hands of fate. As an example, they use the well-known principle of "uwei". But at the same time, they do not remember that this principle begins to work with a person when he has reached a certain (high) level of development. In the lives of such people, most of their free time is spent thinking about how everything will be fine later. They only fill their lives with expectations. In fact, they do not live, but they expect.
Expectations, in my opinion, not only do not benefit a person, but can be very harmful. Quite often, expectations are filled with conditions. At the same time, a person does not think about who these conditions are addressed to. After all, it turns out that in such a situation of expectation, a person sets conditions for the world and everything that surrounds him. At the same time, he expects that his terms will be accepted.
Most often, this, of course, does not happen, and over time, a person comes to the understanding that his expectations do not come true. After all, expectations are not desires, or dreams. To achieve which you have to do something. If we are waiting for something, then we imagine a specific, almost guaranteed result. Moreover, for such people, it should appear by itself.
It is at such moments that people experience a severe crisis. It is characterized, first of all, by resentment towards the whole world. Because, in the picture of the world of such people, it was the world that had to justify their expectations. Experiences may well develop into a depressive state, yes, and on a physical level, a person feels bad. It may well be a strong disappointment in life with the most unpleasant consequences.
Expectations should be treated very carefully and it is more beneficial not to give in to them completely. Working with a specialist can help with the consequences that arise; it is dangerous to leave such a condition unattended. It is worth remembering that waiting is not the best way to live life.
Live with joy! Anton Chernykh.
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