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- The doctor said everything is in order with hearing, this is mental … I know, I was told that children have ear pain when there are a lot of screams, quarrels, insults, etc. in the family.. But this is not about us at all. My husband and I have a good relationship, and in general we come so tired that we can only think about rest, we have no time for screaming … Our nanny is very kind, she was the first to notice that something was wrong with the child …
- Don't you think …?
- No, no, we have cameras, I know that she treats the child very well and he loves her very much!
- Can you tell us in more detail what exactly his "deafness" is manifested in?
- Well, not that he does not hear at all, but he asks all the time, "ah", he doesn’t do anything the first time, you need to go up to him and look into his eyes to explain everything, he says that he understands better, seeing his lips … room to room is useless, just personal contact.
- How much does it affect your studies?
- Teachers say that they did not notice such a problem, because either he sits on the first desk, or they speak loudly so that everyone can hear … Even the nanny does not bother much, because they are always there, and to tell the truth, I am terribly angry, I already hate these akanya … I have so many negotiations, so many schemes in my head, you think "quickly said and ran," and then "a" yes "a" and you have to drop everything and chew … enrages. I told him "are you writing?", And he "breathe with my nose!"
- What are you playing with your child? How do you spend your leisure time? Where do you go together? What are you chatting about?
- I understand, you think he is lonely or we do not pay attention to him. But in fact, he has a lot of friends, circles … On weekends we try to go out into the city, into the park. The husband gladly takes him to all sorts of attractions or just go to the schoolyard with a bicycle, a ball and so on … They always come happy and happy …
- If, in fact, there is peace and tranquility in your family, if there is no physical illness and "deafness" does not affect his life, what is your problem?
- You understand, he would have only one thing, to sit next to me and read every little thing, every nonsense on my lips!
- I understand, do you?
- I? I don't mind, just …
I’m afraid of him, I don’t know what to do with him, what to talk to him about … He’s a boy, I don’t know how to play boy games, I don’t understand these cars, constructors … we all always had girls, I don’t understand how it could have happened that a boy was born to me.
- Your husband is also a "boy", what are you talking about with him?
- About a child, about everyday life, about sex, about work … we just met at work and it happened that we mainly talk about business … It's just that my dad died when I was very young, and there are all women around, you know …? I do not know what they talk about with men … Everyone at work considers me an aggressive feminist, every day I walk like on a battlefield … a male team, you know … sexism, all that. Itself, like those guys, I'm getting fat, balding from constant stress, and then there's this deafness … The doctor said to look at the reaction, talk to him in different ways, there further - closer, with different intonations, face - back, but he didn't say what to talk about …
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