2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2024-01-12 20:57
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At the beginning of a relationship, lovers are full of hope. We are ready to make promises to love and be together. The state of happiness disposes to show the best qualities to each other. What happens next? Why doesn't it turn out like in a fairy tale "and they lived happily ever after"? There are many reasons for this, some of them will be considered in this and subsequent articles in the format problem and solution.
Addictive. This is how the mind works. Any new finding pleases with novelty. The appearance of a person who loves you is a great acquisition that causes a lot of positive emotions. It seems that it will always be so. However, some time passes, addiction occurs and we stop noticing what we have acquired. We seem to merge with a partner, he becomes a part of ourselves. This is the first reason a relationship can fade.
Learn more: how to learn to love
There is a well-known saying: what we have we do not keep, having lost we cry. Therefore, distance, separation, pauses in a relationship can be useful, giving an opportunity to reevaluate what we had. Look at it again. This is the first reason why you shouldn't rush to get divorced / part right away. Instead, it's better to give yourself time to feel the difference: being alone and being alone.
Update. Imagine what happens to the house if you don't take care of it? So it is with relationships, they periodically need repair and renewal. You can ask yourself questions: What do I do for the relationship, how do I maintain it? What problems are there now, what can I do to solve them?
For renewal, it is useful to remember the period of the beginning of the relationship. Answer yourself to the questions: why did I choose this person as my spouse, what qualities do I love, what I like about him, what was important for me, what is his uniqueness? Telling your partner about this can be a revelation for him, which will bring you closer.
It is good to go to the place of acquaintance, the first kiss, another secret place for both of you. Do what you did at the beginning of the relationship. You can turn your mind around and pretend to see your spouse for the first time. Watching how he dresses, moves, looks, sits are manifestations of his personality. Suggest updating your wardrobe to see her (him) in a new one. Go dancing, yoga, jogging, cycling together.
In situations of emotional tension, on the contrary, to be separate. We will talk about emotions in the next article on this topic.
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