2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Probably, many have seen this wonderful film, but I recently watched it.
Because 10 years ago, I certainly would not have seen all these benefits in it.
So, what interesting moments did I see in the film as a constellator?
- The main character (GG) makes it clear that being in the harshest and most unfavorable working conditions, a person can still be in contact with his resource - and this is nothing more than his true interest and genuine desire in the business that brings him joy and in which he wants to grow.
- The GG has the ability to see in another woman the strength of an internal aggressor and she does not run away from this, does not fight in hysterics, does not throw mud at the boss, like her friends, because she has the same strength. This is the power of success and money. It is from this ability that she will later refuse.
- The GG does NOT go through the conflict between her Goal and her inner circle (she and her friends), in the end she remains where she started from. The message - "You will be again or just like us - gray and unlucky, or we will exclude you from our gray and envious party!"
- GG does NOT go through the conflict of her Goal in Couple (she and her boyfriend), she remains faithful to her inner sacrifice and as a reward - her boyfriend forgives her everything - her outstanding success, her outstanding abilities and talent that surpasses him.
- YY DOES NOT stand up to his own success and his abilities. Wine rises, I am much more successful than my friends, I go forward, but they stand still - it means they are good and correct, and I am bad. If I go down to them again, maybe they will forgive my success and again accept me into their party?
As soon as Andrea (GG) becomes guilty for her success, for her uniqueness, talent and outstanding abilities, she can no longer see Miranda Priestley as a businessman-leader, she sees that all perfectionists are meanness, dirt and betrayal, as if forgets about the rules of the game on the field, where everything is bought and sold. All this suddenly becomes new to her, she condemns and despises. It includes depreciation (internal sacrifice), first of all - of one's ability to take more and better for oneself (while not killing or stealing anyone) than others do, and secondly, guilt for one's success, uniqueness and talents …
Because from a battered cat to turn into a luxurious and fashionable lady, who feels confident with both millionaires and ordinary people, to achieve awesome professionalism, to find a solution in the most difficult situations, and then pour it all down the toilet - it's worth a lot, I'll tell you …
reference - "The Devil Wears Prada", a comedy drama by the director based on the book of the same name, which tells the story of a young girl who got a job in one of the most influential fashion magazines, 2006
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