2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
In our marital relations, we (for one reason or another) often belittle, devalue the partner, thereby causing irreparable damage to both the partner and the relationship as a whole. By belittling the dignity and consistency of another person, we in an allegorical sense invalidate it, deprive it of mental and spiritual potency, and doom it to further blunders. And on the contrary, filling another with boundless faith in his capabilities - we give wings to good luck and achievements, thereby ensuring guaranteed success in virtually any business.
My exercise today will allow spouses to look at each other with the eyes of infinite acceptance and love, as our Angels may see us. With eyes that are able to discern a GOD'S PROJECTION in another person and appeal to this SACRED, HIGH SPARK in their interaction with him.
Practical task "Through the eyes of an angel"
1. The spouses sit down opposite each other.
2. Establish a sequence of role-playing positions. Which of them starts and who continues this exercise?
3. The first participant tries on the role of the Guardian Angel of the marriage partner.
4. The Guardian Angel closes his eyes and looks at his partner with his inner vision, trying to discern in him the priceless treasures of his beautiful soul.
5. The Guardian Angel begins to talk about his ward and his indisputable merits, securing in the field of this person the high, sacred truth about his character and capabilities.
6. Finishing the story, the Guardian Angel blesses the pupil for the best realization of his spiritual potential.
7. The disciple thanks his Angel for his love and acceptance, and gratefully accepts the Angel's blessings.
8. The role of the Guardian Angel is removed from one partner and transferred to another.
9. The second partner closes his eyes and tries to look at his companion with a sacred, inner gaze, through the eyes of the Guardian Angel of this person.
10. Then the same thing happens as described earlier in the case of the first partner.
11. The game ends. Roles are removed. The couple return to their normal role statuses, but with the experience of spiritually touching each other.
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