2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
I would like to open on my blog a short practical cycle on marriage healing. Here I will leave various kinds of creative tasks-exercises that can positively affect your marriage relationship. So, the first task …
Psychological game "Role exchange"
1. Spouses choose (appoint) for themselves a certain MAGICAL day (one hour or several fixed hours), which (which) they will spend, exchanging roles with each other: the husband portrays, shows, plays the wife, the wife - the husband.
2. On the eve, the role-playing rules of the subsequent game are discussed, based on the principle of environmental friendliness of relations, that is, in a foreign role, the player serves his partner truthfully, but delicately.
3. On the appointed day, during the agreed time, the spouses stage their roles, demonstrating to the partner everything that is important for them to convey - to show, tell and express about the other; while fulfilling all the duties assigned to each other: the husband does what his spouse usually does, the wife repeats the behavior and duties of the spouse.
4. Discussion. At the end (execution) of the exercise, the spouses discuss their day (or hour) of the exchange of roles: what they saw in themselves, reflected in the partner; what they feel and think about this; what conclusions did you make for the future?
5. Monitoring the progress of the subsequent relationship and checking the executed results. After a while (conditionally - two weeks), we return to the analysis of relationships, in order to summarize: what significant result did the earlier exercise have on the relationship?
In the video attached below, I explain in more detail the essence and rules of this exercise. Take it into service and try it in action. In addition to being extremely diagnostic and effective in improving relationships, the task is also entertaining in the course of its execution.
Good luck!
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