2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
So she already knows almost everything about what her parents did wrong, which is why such a de … bad thing is happening in her life. He knows about his own people and about the parents of “that guy”. When the next "bad something" is revealed, she easily finds the reason in childhood - already without any psychologists.
She quickly notices manipulation, gaslighting, depreciation, and more. And it turns out that everyone around is "sinning" about it. Wherever you go - everywhere is not environmentally friendly communication. At least the phrases “it happens”, “stay there” and other alleged support from loved ones - this is also a depreciation.
She sees perverse daffodils a mile away. And psychopaths. And the abuser. And others, other toxic ones, from which you need to stay away.
She determines compatibility no longer by a horoscope, but by a psychotype.
In every runny nose and bruise, she finds psychological reasons.
She went through a million constellations, cleared out the whole family and past lives at the same time. She perfectly knows the systemic laws and immediately determines who "inherited" her problems, as well as - what is wrong in the family of "that guy".
She will tirelessly repeat that death gives meaning to life, and love is an active action.
She devours psychological articles and books at the speed of a grinder. And throws off links to all significant people.
She can no longer communicate with "ordinary" people - with those who are not in therapy and are not keen on psychology. They don’t talk about feelings, they don’t use careful language, they don’t understand the depth of her feelings and say “don’t bother”.
She can list all the mechanisms of psychological defense in the middle of the night. She sees that everything around, like algae, is overgrown with defenses and masks.
She sees through and through who needs therapy, why and why, and what exactly needs to be fixed. She actively recommends good psychologists to them.
She wants to change the world. He wants everyone around to become mentally healthy, conscious and authentic and communicate in an extremely environmentally friendly way. And she is upset over and over again that the whole world is not going to psychologize.
And the world, in general, is like the world. Life is like life. People are like people. We adapted as we could. They live as they can.
For a seemingly “crooked” communication, there are not necessarily manipulations, abuse, devaluation, psychic protection and layers of masks.
With the phrases “it happens,” “stay there,” “don't bother,” a person may sincerely want to provide support. And he does it this way, because he can do it that way, and not because he unconsciously wants to attack.
Mental health begins where all the baggage of psi-knowledge and skills can be used to adapt to the real world, to be included in it and peaceful existence in the existing reality.
When you want to isolate yourself from the non-psychologized world, you want to improve everyone's health - this is one of the stages, it is important to go through it. But it is also important to go out of it into the ordinary real world with ordinary real people (as in the Hero's Journey - to return to the ordinary world with an elixir and find a good use for it). If you get stuck at the stage of psychologization, you can get poisoned and die.
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