2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
His mother is always tired and unhappy. She lives only for her son, so that he would have this and that, and, most importantly, almost like people. She even tolerates her father, who spoils her life. The father either does not earn, or drinks, or is absent. But for that he is.
“I would have left, but Alyosha needs a father,” he hears from the moment he remembers himself. "I saved your father, if not for you, I would have divorced him long ago" - he hears in adolescence, when he ceases to look like a bunny boy. “I invested my whole life in my son, and now, of course, I don’t need it,” he hears after the wedding.
Mom endured all her life, and all because of him, because of her blood, because of her son. She denied herself everything, everything to him, son. She lived in this hell, but for that (for what?) The son had a father. Mom suffered all her life, well, because a son, a family, she is a mother - that's all.
And now he has to. I just owe it to my mom. She didn't have a life because of him. Now, then, he knows for sure that this very life she should have.
And he flies to his mother for the first sneeze, buys a second refrigerator, although his own family does not have enough for diapers, and every day after work he stops by to visit his mother's parrot, because Kesha is bored, and when Kesha is bored, her mother gets upset, but she cannot.
He is a good son, only angry and tired. And his wife, a shrew, does not understand anything. He owes his mother so much that he pays and pays the bills, now with money, now with time, now with a sense of guilt.
And he will not understand in any way that it will not work to pay. He owes his mother much more than the rent and the daily living report. He owes his mom life. She gave it to him, didn't she? I gave it. And now he is demanding compensation. And it seems to him that this is fair.
But what can you pay for your life? Well, what would be honest? Million? Two? Billion? Green or ours, wooden? I'm just wondering how much it costs to redeem my son's life from my mother? And do you know what I noticed?
The more unhappy a mother is in her life, the more expensive the life of her son becomes. Sometimes the cost skyrockets, or rather, to life.
Mom demands life for life: I didn't have my own life, so you will give me yours. And the boys are giving back. In different ways - someone with money and quarrels with his wife, and someone flushes his life down the toilet with alcohol and drugs, as if bringing life back. Because in fig such a life is unnecessary, which does not belong to you anyway.
And I’m wondering why the school doesn’t explain the obvious?
1. Life is a gift. Not a deal, not a favor, not a sales contract. And if it was presented, then you do not owe anyone or anything for it.
2. Life has no price. She's priceless. No matter how you try to pay off, you still have to. But do we remember that this is a gift? So stop bidding. Does not work? Then bill your child right away.
3. Mom is sacred, of course. But mom, she is, in fact, in order to raise her son happy, and not twitched, tired and anxious man. Moms, like dads, in order to teach the offspring to live independently, and, preferably, happily. This is their parental job.
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