2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
So what could be hidden behind disgust for people?
Let's first understand the definition of "disgust" so that everyone can understand everything. This feeling in perception and experience is quite complex, and the definition in Ozhegov's explanatory dictionary is quite simple and understandable:
disgust - an extremely unpleasant feeling caused by something.
Let's figure it out in order.
Just an unpleasant and / or ugly person
There are people beautiful both externally and internally, it usually attracts and disposes in itself, many studies have proven this many times. We will not take a certain type, let it be any person whom you consider beautiful. Moreover, it is not always necessary to have stunning natural data, but just a smile is enough to make your image more pleasant, softer and thus more attractive.
But even in this category, the opposite feeling of dislike and disgust can arise in those cases when beauty is either only demonstrative, "without a soul" and in those when it simultaneously attracts and repels us. Such a feeling can arise from the fact that a person feels unattractive and is very much lost in the presence of beautiful people.
Sincere envy, both conscious and unconscious, plays a huge role in the perception of outwardly attractive people and building relationships with them. Some try to be friends with them, others avoid. But the most important thing for a relationship is lost - sincerity and openness, because a person is loved not for something, but in spite of.
Accordingly, it is not always possible to understand by appearance what a person has inside. Remember, in any case, the perception of beauty is subjective, each has its own type of attractiveness.
"Toad" from any relationship or memory
Once in your life there was an unpleasant situation with some person, and every time you see someone similar to him (her) you have a nasty feeling. The personality type can really be characteristic of people with a certain line of behavior, but, as you know, there are exceptions to any rule, and in any person there are many sides that you might not have seen before.
"Jamb" that is impossible to accept
Everyone has their own life values, and it so happens that something in the life of another is so contrary to important grounds for you that it makes communication very difficult. First of all, in front of you is a person who is the same as you. Everyone has their own story, and everyone has the right to their own life. If this person does nothing wrong to you and your loved ones personally, he is not to blame for anything. He has the right to live as he sees fit, and he also pays for his actions himself.
"Traitor" with whom the paths parted
This is no longer just a "jamb", it means that in relation to you a certain act was committed that violated your emotional, physical or material well-being. Indeed, at the sight of this person, a feeling of disgust can arise. The main thing is that it does not interfere with your life. It is best to fully clarify the relationship with the "traitor" and move on without offense or reproach.
The person knows too much, and you never liked him
It is unlikely that the presence of a spy who enters your personal space without your consent will be especially loved by someone. These can be people who like to delve into the "dirty laundry" of others, so as not to live their own lives. Or those with whom, due to certain life circumstances, you have to cross personally or through a common circle of acquaintances.
!!! A man knows too much, and you once really liked him
This, it seems to me, is a very important and extremely difficult experience. At first you liked the person very much, you were close and pleasantly treated, but the moment came when you stopped wanting to communicate, and the person in your heart and mind evokes conflicting feelings. The problem is often that he knows too much!
But very often people realize this after many years of life or a course of intensive psychotherapy. Then it is almost impossible to build contact and relationships with such a person. And even if there is communication and attempts to build relationships, very often they stop suddenly. Such communication is more typical for the relationship between a man and a woman, but not in the absolute majority.
In fact, this is a strong sign that we are warm, comfortable, pleasant with a person, that there are tender, perhaps even love feelings, but this person has come too close. So close and frank that it is impossible to go further. The other cannot be in this proximity, it is unbearable for him! This is where a break often occurs. But in this place there could be love!
Dear ones, a person has the right to experience different feelings, because he is alive and real. Even if at some point with a loved one it becomes unbearable to disgust, this does not mean that you need to run away. Sometimes you need to move away to see the other and watch him a little.
Love is not given to everyone and not always, take care of it, do not lose it!
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