2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
« Dear baby,
I am writing this letter to you sitting in the cosmetics section of our local supermarket. Recently, a friend sent me an SMS from another similar department and said that this is one of the most oppressive places in the world. I wanted to understand what he meant. And now I am sitting here and, it seems, beginning to agree with him. Words have tremendous power, and words in the windows of this department even more so. Words and phrases like these:
- Excellent at an affordable price;
- Infallible;
- Flawless finish;
- Shining power;
- Take off your clothes;
- Challenging the age;
- Choose your dream;
- Almost naked;
- Natural beauty.
When your daughter grows up, you understand that she is as strong as everyone else in the house - this is an element that must be reckoned with, this is a hot soul endowed with the same life, the same gifts and passion as the soul of any man … But sitting in this department, you also begin to realize that most people will not see her like this. For them, she will be just a pretty face and a body that you can enjoy. And they will tell her that she must look a certain way in order to have at least some value and influence.
But there is still strength in words, and maybe the words of the father will be able to resist the words of this world. Perhaps the father's words will be able to rid the daughter of this shame, which has already become the norm, and bring her a deep and unshakable sense of her own worth and beauty.
Father's words are not special words, they just have a different meaning:
- Blazing Power -
Let your strength be not in your nails, but in your soul. Darling, try to understand who you are and live in peace with this knowledge - albeit with trepidation, but persistently.
- Find your dream -
But not on a supermarket shelf! Find a place of peace and tranquility within yourself. This is where the real dream grows. Understand what you want to do in this world. And when you have already chosen, follow it - faithfully, honestly and without losing hope.
- Naked -
This world wants you to take off your clothes. But please leave it to yourself. Instead, take off your … boxing gloves! Don't hit for visibility. Say what is in your heart. Be vulnerable. Take the risk. Love this world, which hardly knows what it means to love yourself. Do it openly and selflessly.
- Infallible -
Always believe that infallibility does not exist. This is an illusion created by people who are interested in your wallet. If you decide to seek perfection, then let it be infallible mercy - to yourself and to the people around you.
- Defying age -
Your skin will wrinkle, your youth will end, but your soul has no age. She will always know what it means to play, enjoy and rejoice. Please challenge the aging of your soul better.
- Flawless finish -
Your "finish" has nothing to do with how your face looks today. Your "finish" is about what your life looks like on the last day. Let the years of your life be a preparation for this day. May active mercy grow old in you, grow in wisdom, and may your love be so great that it can embrace all people. May your “perfect finish” be a peaceful acceptance of the end and what follows, and may it be a gift to all those who love you.
Baby, you love everything pink and ruffled, and of course I understand if make-up becomes important to you someday. But I pray that three words will be much more important to you - the last three words that you utter every day before bed, when I ask you: "What is the most beautiful thing in you?" These words are so bright that no foundation can hide them.
What's the most beautiful thing about you? - What's inside
From my heart to yours, Your Daddy"
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