2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
I'm so tired of fighting. For life … for your rights … for your value …
And somewhere in the depths, the inner core shouted to her, “What are you… everything they do and don’t do, this should in no way affect your value of yourself. You have no one to fight with. You are valuable already for who you are. No one, you hear, not a single man, not a boss who unjustly fired, no one has any idea about your value. You have no one to fight with! Stop it! Let go! You have no one to fight with!"
But really, who are you fighting with? And most importantly, for what? Will something change if your word is the last one? What will you feel? That you won. But who were you fighting with? Is it with you? Didn't you prove your worth to yourself when you shouted to him: "I deserve a different attitude to myself." But did you then believe in it yourself? Or was she just proving it to herself?
Who were you fighting with? Who were you trying to prove? For employers, what is worthy of this salary? A man worthy of gifts and his attention? Maybe you were proving because you yourself did not believe in it?
What have you done to yourself, trying to prove to everyone, what already belongs to you. Your value, your word and your opinion. No one has ever taken them away from you or deprived you of any rights! You forbade this to yourself, and decided that everyone has the right to this, but you do not. And then, with a sword in her hands, she rushed to defend her right to her emotions, feelings, opinions, mistakes, illusions and her reality.
As a result, you felt hysterical, the feeling of trust in people disappeared, but fortunately there was a feeling of trust in the world. What he will not give up, what he will pick up. Yes, people betray, leave, abandon. But the world … the world needs you the way you are, since you are. Your people are, and they exist, you just became so isolated that you stopped seeing anyone at all except yourself.
Who are you fighting with? And to whom are you proving what? And do you need to prove something to someone
What do you need? What do you expect from others that you do for yourself?
And remember, when you met, how you tried, how you waited for him with a freshly prepared lunch, how you tried to be interesting to him. And when he left, I felt tired. Is it because you tried with all your inner forces to demonstrate how wonderful you are, and in this the best, and in this good. Men always feel such a trick, so after a while, when he began to take all this for granted, you heard: "For me you are trying to show what a good housewife you are." The subtext was that you are trying to get me to marry you.
Or at work you were exhausted, just to take this position, you were sure that only then the best life would begin, you will be respected, envied, and again you will become the best. Best for mom, for ex-husband, because to prove to him this sacred cause that he has lost. And then what? Colleagues appeared at work who did not perceive you as a boss, and again you did not feel valuable.
Since childhood, most of us are brought up on the fact that you are good and you are loved only if you do what those who give this love want. And for good grades and exemplary behavior, they give you this love. But is this love? Do not my parents exalt myself by the fact that they have such an exemplary daughter, obedient, or different: she does not smoke, does not drink in the backyard and does not get along with boys.
So what is value? Does she depend on anything? And does it need to be proven? And most importantly, to whom? Parents, others, loved ones or yourself?
Value Is an internal characteristic given to us from birth. You were born, which means that you are already valuable, valuable to this world. It means that the world needs you and needs you for who you are. I need it with the tasks, with the physical data that you have. You are needed with your traumas, which passed on to you from your parents, and with the upbringing that they gave you. The world needs you! You don't need to prove your worth and importance to him. You are here, you live, which means that you are already important. Your presence here is your experience and someone's lessons that someone else will receive through you. Accept, accept your worth. Just open up to her, accept her without having to prove her, show her. The attitude of people towards you does not determine your value, it only determines the lessons that you must go through, but no more, and these lessons were once chosen by your soul for you.
How do you feel your worth? You will feel it when you accept the fact that it already exists! Nobody took her away. And you do not need to prove it to anyone, and even more so with someone to fight to prove that you are valuable. Our value is not determined by looks, the presence or absence of something, a well-defined waist or perfect skin. Back off, stop proving and fighting. Live.
Author: Darzhina Irina Mikhailovna
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