2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
I know the most common ways to let go of problems and worries.
Each has its own price. And your special pleasure)
Go into books, food, alcohol, illness, psychosis, or just leave. Or maybe you prefer “to comprehend the secrets of the universe”?
Choose any:
go to books
Reading voraciously is a great way to get out of your own life and live the exciting life of novel heroes. TV shows are fine too, but they are less powerful. In books, there is more room for the “user's” imagination, which means more immersion, inclusion, “presence effect”.
go into food
Eating from early childhood, from the period of breastfeeding, is the best sedative for mankind. The pleasure of eating food is akin to religion. And this is an extraordinary feeling of warmth and heaviness inside! It is so similar to a state of fulfillment, integrity, unity. And now you are not alone - you are “with someone”. Wonderfully drowns out loneliness. And for a while protects from all the complexities of life. Especially sweet food - wonderful cakes, chocolate and all kinds of sweets create a euphoric explosion in the body. Life seems wonderful.)
If you like it, feel free to develop your food addiction. Great way. So what, that is fat, so what is the risk of diabetes, but what are the benefits! So the thickness is "in the cashier" - less often all sorts of men will pester. Just primordial peace, innocence, safety, and also pleasure!
go to alcohol
With the help of what else can you get rid of any problems so quickly? An excellent way to regularly and for a long time fall out of reality. Here you have both “freedom” and “carelessness” and “unbearable lightness of being” - all in one bottle! Over time, reality in life will become less and less, and more and more carelessness.
go to “distant worlds”
Now, as never before, we have access to any teachings, religions and scientific knowledge that mankind has developed during the last millennia of its existence. Just reach out, press the button and you will plunge into the magical world of ancient teachings, the exciting world of scientific research, into fantastic prospects for the growth of consciousness and soul! The path is exciting and exciting - meetings, retreats, like-minded people, teachers, discoveries, insights. Endless depths ……..
Very soon, the family will become a small point in the backyard of everyday life. Work is unnecessary fuss. And really, why rush about, we live for Eternity. Is there anything more important than connecting with the Universe in a single impulse? In the end, there will be a next life, you can try in it.
go to drugs
A wonderful way not to touch reality at all.
go into illness
You can find such a disease that you just leave right away. And you can suffer long and hard, building your whole life around the disease. Or you can cut off a piece from yourself. In any case, illness organizes life very well. A great way not to face real experiences and deepest problems, but to live them through illness. The method is sometimes fatal, more often painful. But what to do - such is the price of this way of avoiding real problems.
go into psychosis
When the psyche fails, it chooses an extreme measure. And one of them is insanity. A great way to get away from reality.
just leave
Also a way. Consciously or at the peak of mental illness, end your life this way. A state of complete carelessness is guaranteed.
Like? Take your pick!
I offer good options!
Do you know others?
Yes, they are:
“… Summer, childhood, you run out onto the porch -“Ahhh, vacation!”
"… mom holds you on her arms, warm, good and nobody, only mom and you.."
“…. dark, warm, you can feel my mother's heartbeat. You and your mother are one”
Yes, there are these ways. But to use them you have to be a child.
along with adulthood comes responsibility and a conscious need
Our desire to fly away, run away, hide from our unsolved problems returns us to the state of a child who is afraid: he hid under the table and is sure that “they” will not find him here. That this life would never happen to him.
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