2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
"Soon the tale will tell, but it won't be done soon."
Good afternoon, my reader, colleague and client!
I dedicate this short note to women, but it will be useful for men as well, if you read it from left to right.
What does left and right have to do with it? See below.
In work with psychosomatic symptoms, and not only the left side is associated with the female, but the right with the male.
In the Russian tradition, during the wedding ceremony, the bride stands to the left of the groom, since to the left of the altar is the image of the Virgin Mary, and to the right is the image of Jesus Christ.
When painting in the registry office, the woman is also on the left. Traditionally in Russia, the left half of the house is female, and the right half is male.
But the psyche is integral, it contains both parts - both left and right (see both female and male).
Often women, seeking to heal their traumatized feminine, take the left path.
And how could it be otherwise, my inexperienced reader will say, because the feminine must be saved, and therefore work with it!
And such women go to all sorts of trainings to improve the feminine principle and their sexuality. They wear long skirts, dance magic dances and chant mantras.
What is wrong with this, my reader will say in indignation?
And I will answer: not bad, BUT if there is no formed male inside, on which the female could rely, it is even dangerous!
This article is a warning for those in whom, due to various reasons (absence of a father (mother in men) / irresponsible / weak parent, etc.), there is no internal protective and approving figure, which becomes the basis for the formation of an internal man / woman.
The inner man (the first stage according to Vasilets is the defender) is based on the image of the girl's father (in the boy, on the contrary, the image of the mother).
The inner man (woman) is built on the basis of the image of the parent and other significant men (women in boys).
That is, it is a collective image on the foundation of the real father, or rather his image (how he was perceived by the girl, what mark he left in the child's psyche).
This is how an internal figure is born in the psyche on which the opposite part rests.
The feminine finds support - defends itself (Protector), feeds (Breadwinner), is ruled by (King), blessed (God) and the masculine according to the same principle - heals (Witch), receives love and knowledge (Geisha), defends and finds a partner in the female (Amazon), co-directs and rules (Queen), blessed (Goddess).
That is, the opposite beginning in the psyche, firstly, can grow (it goes through certain stages of development) and, secondly, it becomes a support for the female in women and male in men.
It is not so rare (alas) when a woman, receiving reinforcement of femininity in the form of therapy, various female trainings and initiations, is repeatedly traumatized or becomes a victim of violence.
This happens in cases when the traumatized woman is trying to build up from scratch, that is, when there is no protective resource supporting figure (archetype) in the intrapsychic space.
Imagine a woman, using special techniques, reveals and increases sexuality, but inside, instead of a support, the figure of a weak seductive father.
With a high degree of probability, such a woman radiating the energy of life will attract a man who is not very clean on hand (cases of rape after such "dissection of sexual energy" are not uncommon).
Sexuality has been increased, but this beauty has no support and protection, it lacks the necessary strength.
I consider it necessary to warn women who embark on the path of healing after a traumatic experience (any) from going to energy practices, women's circles and other techniques that reveal female sexuality.
In a word, - DO NOT HURRY TO THE LEFT! (You are in the wrong place).
This is the vector of male initiation, which means you are to the right, but your inner man is to the left!
Your first priority is to heal and grow your inner man. It is he who must go through the path of initiation, mature and become your inner support.
The growth stages of the inner man may coincide with the archetypes that mythology offers us (heroes (for example, Hercules), gods (Hades, Zeus, Kronos), or such authors as Tatyana Vasilets or a Russian fairy tale that leads Ivan the Fool on the way to Ivan Tsarevich …
And also you can use my articles and stories that begin with "The Way of Ivan the Fool" is not at all accidental and represent the initiation of the male.
I wish you wisdom (your inner voice is your Witch (knowing mother) / Baba Yaga will help you on this path, or rather to the one who has not yet matured to the tsarevich) and I thank my fabulous unconscious for the wisdom of ancestors, trust, and although not simple and an ornate yet so important path to true maturity!
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