2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
I like to write posts, articles, stories. I like to be aware of and embody all this on paper, in print, in reasoning and talking. I used to love long evenings at the table in the kitchen with friends, thinking and discussing something, arguments leading to the truth. I love to look beyond the unknown. I like to understand my own psychological constructions, to look into the dark corners of the psyche. Sometimes it is not safe, sometimes it is accompanied by pain, but it is interesting, it liberates and liberates something there, inside, something very important, something waiting for him to look out and see the light. I do not feel anything dangerous from what is hidden deep inside, I feel great power there. I remember how this something manifested itself, but it was always for another, for a very significant other. But for yourself? No, not possible, prohibited. You can be weak for yourself.
I don't like writing texts to order. I don’t like to smooth over and ennoble other people's thoughts, I don’t like to think out and guess for another. But this is an obligatory part of the program. As soon as you appoint a significant other for yourself, as soon as you cancel yourself, you find yourself in a cycle of increasing demands for more and more cancellation. And to say: "Don't cook the pot" is sometimes impossible, sometimes only through a conflict or break. There is also a third side - this is when the other appointed to be the main one appropriates the results of the general activity. He is in charge, he believed in it. By canceling ourselves, we do our best to push him to think so to himself. Of course, a significant other also has a choice to be significant or to refuse, but for this you need to be a very wise and strong person. Exactly the same as in order not to cancel yourself and not to appoint yourself a significant other, you also need to be a very wise and strong person. And so, when two wise and strong people meet, they have no need to fight for power, to cancel themselves, to appoint another responsible for themselves. This meeting is beautiful and rare in our time, although it is quite possible. This is not from the realm of fantasy. But you shouldn't wait for such a meeting all your life. It is worth living your whole life second by second. Understanding and acceptance are great and invisible helpers in this matter.
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