2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
It is never too late to have a heart-to-heart talk with yourself, and even on time. With that very little girl who lives in every adult woman. It's never too late to say to yourself the most important words: "I love you, my dear" and "Forgive me"
Forgive me for not loving and appreciating you for so long. And this adult woman may already be 25, 30, 35 or even 50 or more, or maybe only 27 … "Forgive me …"
Forgive me, dear, that I did not appreciate you, that I allowed others to treat you in a way that you do not like, that I allowed you to laugh when they were joking at you, and you were not at all funny. Forgive me for letting others know what was best for you and following what they said about you, adjusting to their ideas. Forgive me for making you listen to criticism about what you are doing and not fight back, forgive me for making you endure, it doesn't matter what, but everything. Tolerate the unacceptable attitude of men who did not value you. Forgive me for making you agree to something that you didn't like at all, just to please the one who never became one. Forgive me for allowing you to gain weight, wear what you don’t like, and surround you with things that don’t please.
Forgive me for not letting you grow up for so long, but for remaining emotionally dependent on your mom. Forgive me for allowing others to transcend your boundaries, both personally and physically.
Forgive me that I often did not give you support when you needed it so much, but only accused you that it was you who were not like that: not beautiful, not harmonious, not feminine, overly confused, reflective and much more … forgive me.
Forgive me for not taking seriously what you are interested in, convincing that it is not yet time to do it, that it is not serious and in general you will not be the best at it anyway, but then why, forgive me.
I'm sorry that I scolded you for the mistakes of the past and made them live. Forgive me for allowing you to suffer for a long time and did not teach you to rejoice and just get pleasure and pleasure from life.
Forgive me for not teaching you to trust the most important person in your life - yourself. I'm sorry that you cannot trust men yet, which means that none of them can make you happy. And forgive me for thinking that happiness is in someone else, and only with his appearance will it begin. It won't start, and happiness has nothing to do with anyone other than yourself.
It is never too late to begin to love and appreciate yourself, not to wait for someone to accept you for who you are, but to accept yourself with all your troubles, cockroaches, stupidity, fears and absurdities. It's never too late just not to wait for anything or, on the contrary, to wait, because the best time always comes, and the best time is now.
It's never too late to learn to live, love, appreciate, forgive and believe … Do not expect forgiveness from others, you do not need it, forgive yourself, look in the mirror and say to yourself: "You are my most beloved girl, I love you, I appreciate you and I will do everything to make you happy."
It is never too late while we are alive, it is never too late to become your best friend, the best mom or dad, the best loved one who will love you unconditionally, not because you do or don’t do for him, but simply because what you are, for how sleepy you are and not wearing makeup in the morning, for the mistakes you make in life, for the way you cry into your pillow and are angry with yourself.
Be merciful to yourself, support yourself, because no one knows better than you how to do this for you, and remember you always have me. I may be 25, 30, 35, 50 or 27, but you have me and I am always there and you are the best that I have.
R. S. I love you.
Author: Darzhina Irina Mikhailovna
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