How To Break Through And Reach The Next Level?

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2024-01-18 02:26

Are there areas in your life in which you have been working on something for a long time and unsuccessfully, but cannot achieve the desired goal? For example, you have been trying to lose weight for a long time, reach a different level of income or profit, start a relationship, climb the career ladder, but you are not appreciated, and everything does not work out. A breakthrough is when you could not achieve your goal for a long time, and then suddenly - once, and everything worked out! How do you make such a breakthrough?

First, let's figure out what exactly prevents you from doing this? What prevents you from growing and achieving the result you dream about? Often the answer is quite prosaic - I did not find the necessary technique, I did not have enough resources, money or connections, strength and motivation, I was just unlucky. Whatever reason you name, all this can be summed up in one word - you are sure that you did not have enough resources (more often external). The wrong people, the wrong conditions, the wrong country, something didn't work out in life … However, let's remember that many people were able to achieve the desired goal under various circumstances. Why did someone succeed and you don't? What kind of resources are you missing?

To make a breakthrough and achieve great success, you must have your own extraordinary qualities - resourcefulness, ingenuity, flexibility, resilience (get up when you fell, and continue the path), a constant desire to develop and search for new strategies and ways to achieve your goals, passion for your dedication, dedication to goals (no matter what to go and do!), determination, sincerity, honesty, some kind of love and kindness in the heart (there is a belief that embittered people get less pleasant in life, in contrast to those who want to achieve something- then from good intentions). You should not dwell on the opinion that evil people are trying to achieve everything, and you are too kind - here you need a balance of kindness and aggression (in a good way, in order to take from the world what is necessary and important for you).

80% of success is psychology, and only the remaining 20% is strategy and technique. What are you thinking about? What are you striving for? What do you think - is it possible or not? This is the result of your life. You must have a sense of mission in life. What are you basically living for? What is your most important goal in life? Relatively speaking, this is the meaning of life. If, for example, your mission is a profession, you will grow professionally and develop (no matter how quickly it happens, the main thing is in the desired area). If it is important for you to build a relationship and find a family by finding the girl / man of your dreams, ask yourself - what mission will you fulfill in this case? What inner qualities will you cultivate? What can you give to the world? In fact, all these are quite important things, without sincere answers to yourself, there will never be a feeling of the result (you are working and all in vain). The result should always be within you, every day you should understand what you managed to do today (even if it is a trifle!) - this is the approach that will lead you forward.

So what to do to make a breakthrough? First of all, determine and write down what exactly you want to get from your life now (what result and in what area), and follow the following recommendations.

Choose a strategy. The idea of the item is quite understandable, but many people stop here. Why? Choosing one or two strategies, applying them in a circle and not seeing the result, people lose hope and motivation ("That's it, I can't do anything! This is not for me. Life bypasses me, everyone gets benefits, but not me"). If one, second, third, fifth strategy did not work, look for a new approach! If the desired goal is really what you want to devote your life to, look for an opportunity to achieve it. The best option is to look for a strategy among successful people who have done exactly the way you want it to.

Observing a happy couple who have been together for many years, partners do not quarrel, they have a warm relationship, ask how they achieved such harmony in a relationship. Harmonious relationships from the first day of acquaintance are a great rarity, and even in this case, people have worked a lot on themselves. Ask what the partners have internal characteristics and qualities that helped them work through negative moments, improve themselves. Perhaps something was brought into the relationship from families.

Pay attention to those people who could not make a breakthrough for a long time, and then they succeeded - they can tell you what factors caused success.

1. Work through your beliefs. Thoughts deeply rooted in our head - rich people are always swindlers; to make a lot of money, you need to work hard and wear and tear; there are no happy relationships; everyone in marriage is unhappy; it is impossible to lose weight, you will have to completely give up food, drive and exhaust yourself, etc. Be sure to write down the messages of your family - you definitely have a lot of negative beliefs in the area where you cannot make a breakthrough (these moments are interconnected). Post your notes in a prominent place. At first it will seem to you that this cannot be, because such thoughts do not fit in your head. However, it is psychotherapy that is the most important and necessary method in working out the issue of attitudes towards money and, in general, relationships between people. We need new experiences to believe, and psychotherapy is irreplaceable here.
2. Pay attention to your condition. If you are firmly convinced that you will not succeed, then you will not succeed! If you have a state of some kind of gratitude, joy, you will be happy to go to your goals and will be able to achieve them much faster.

Another little breakout tip - never say don't know. For example, you lost your keys in your apartment. If you look for them with the thoughts “I don't know where the keys are! Where are they ?! I don’t remember where I put them!”, The search will take a long time. Start your search by asking “Where could I put the keys? Where was the last time I saw them? Are questions that by default assume there is a solution and you will definitely find the keys faster.

Never say to yourself “I don’t know how to achieve success”, “I don’t know how to move up to a higher position”, “I don’t know how to get better” - you do not need to knowingly program yourself for failure. Always ask - how will I do it? And you will find all the answers!