2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
There is not a single person who has not used manipulation at least once. Even the most honest, open and naive.
But sometimes it is one thing to resort to manipulations, and another - when they become the work of a person's life, his vile style of interaction.
In addition, when a person experiences manipulation on himself, what difference does it make to him: does this person manipulate only him or the others?
It is important for him to be able to see the manipulation so as not to end up in someone else's game. And do not get entangled in her web.
I wrote about what methods the manipulator uses in the following articles:
Why does a manipulator manipulate?
Manipulators - What Are Their Traps?
Today I want to consider another phenomenon.
This is a change in conditions
You came to a person, agreed on something, and then it turns out that there was no agreement. And he says the opposite.
I asked you to do something, promising that this guarantees some privileges, the performance of something. But then he reset everything and demanded other conditions.
So it is circling in the dance of changing conditions, and you are trying to fulfill these conditions, but you do not achieve what you promised.
And why?
Because no one is going to do anything for you. But their constantly changing conditions become a bait for you and an excellent tool for a manipulator to get what he needs.
What to do in such cases if you feel that you are in a manipulative relationship?
Pictures from the Internet, except for the last photo in which I))
Illustrations with dialogues by Oleg Guta.
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