"I Can't Fulfill My Potential!" Five Reasons Why This Is Difficult. Part Two

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I can't fulfill my potential

Five reasons why this is difficult. Part 2

Reason # 2. Actions do not lead to the desired result or

I put in so much effort to realize myself, and the result is so insignificant

"What's wrong with me?" "I will mark, with so much effort, I am not getting the desired result?" Similar questions are asked in my consultations. I see people who strive for significant achievements and make significant efforts, I feel their potential and at the same time, the bitterness of the inability to open up in this world.

Why doesn't it work?

During my practice, I have identified the following difficulties:

• internal ban on success;
• lack of a sufficiently clear understanding of what this desired result is;
• the need for implementation is not only in the field of activity, but also affects other areas, for example, relationships, but there is no understanding of this;
• there is no positive example of successful implementation of loved ones (significant adults) in childhood. And as a result, a successful model of behavior in the sphere of disclosing abilities in the outside world has not been mastered. Accordingly, it is not clear what actions must be taken in order to realize oneself.
• Efforts are made according to the same type of scenario that was learned in childhood. For example, you have to be diligent in order to get what you want - parental praise, a good grade, etc. In adulthood, a person reproduces this model of behavior to get what he wants, but the results are insignificant. Because being diligent is not the same as being purposeful.

As a rule, inquiries about the disclosure and realization of talent are quite voluminous and require deep, gradual psychological work. As we delve deeper into this topic, we are dealing with pain, sadness, despair, and fatigue. At the same time, when the request for change is sincere, I see a powerful potential that is gradually released. There is a systematic transformation from the state of the embryo into lush flowering and then into excellent fruiting. I am deeply convinced that if a person does not betray his dream, does not deviate from the path of working on himself, he will certainly reveal and realize his potential.

For me, every topic that I write about and with which I work is special, but the topic of realizing the potential is especially sensitive, because I really want people to reveal their abilities in all their glory. Isn't this why we come in this world?

Be attentive and careful to your experiences and feelings!

You can read the first part of the article and reason # 1 that prevents you from realizing your potential at this link:pyat-prichin-pochemu-eto-slozhno-sdelat-chast-1 /

The third part of the article and reason No. 3 that prevents you from realizing your potential, follow this link:pochemu-eto-slozhno-sdelat-chast-tretya /

Psychologist Linda Papitchenko