"I Can't Fulfill My Potential!" Five Reasons Why This Is Difficult. Part Three

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I can't fulfill my potential

Five reasons why this is difficult. Part 3

I can do more! Sound familiar? But, despite the feeling of a powerful internal potential, for some reason it is not possible to manifest it in full force in the external world. This is frustrating and upsetting, because you cannot feel deep satisfaction from your activities:

• make enough money
• to have the desired opportunities in life,
• and just feel that you are living your own bright, rich life!

Why is it difficult to realize your potential?

Reason number 3. Disruption of communication between the inner and outer world or "I have talent, but I don't know how to realize it."

When clients come to me with this problem, most often they feel that their talent, accumulated knowledge and skills are like a huge ball of energy inside, but they do not understand how to manifest it in the outside world. When they begin to take steps towards self-realization, little comes out. It hurts people, I see the sadness in their eyes and I share it.

Why isn't it possible?

Most often, at a certain stage of the child's development, difficulties arise in interacting with the outside world. The connection between the internal and the external is broken.

What exactly are we talking about? Let's take an example: the child wanted to dance and he really has the makings, but the parents could not, for various reasons, find a suitable dance studio and take the child there. Then the girl / boy tries to find something on their own, but these searches do not give a positive result: they don’t like the studio, the coach doesn’t fit, couldn’t find the studio, etc.

What happens next? The child can independently practice dancing on their own enthusiasm, for example, at home. But over time, the fuse fades away, because there is no opportunity to be realized in the external world: to receive feedback, gradually and regularly master new things, prepares for performances, etc. Accordingly, the following code is prescribed in the internal program of a person: I have talent / abilities, but do not have the ability to implement them in the outside world. Subconsciously, the devaluation of your abilities begins, because what is the use of them if you cannot realize them. And then a person, as a rule, similar concepts are formed:

• "Yes, I am capable, but the world does not need it."
• "I know I'm good at it, but I can't find a use for this ability."

One of significant difficulties for such people it is imbalance between high potential (ability / talent) and low level of mentally active energynecessary for self-realization.

Each of us has our own talent. Be considerate and patient with yourself. Give yourself the right to a successful, wealthy, joyful life. Realize your talents in the outside world. If at the moment, for one reason or another, this does not work out, do not give up anyway! Read the necessary literature, familiarize yourself with the experience of other people, if for a long time you cannot cope on your own - do not hesitate and seek help from a specialist. Don't put off your life until later. "Heal" your trauma and pain. And the result will definitely be!

In the fourth part of the article, you can familiarize yourself with another important reason that hinders and complicates the realization of your potential.

You can read the first part of the article and the reason No. 1 that prevents you from realizing your potential by following this link:pyat-prichin-pochemu-eto-slozhno-sdelat-chast-1 /

You can read the second part of the article and reason # 2 that prevents you from realizing your potential at this link:pyat-prichin-pochemu-eto-slozhno-sdelat-chast-vtoraya /

Psychologist Linda Papitchenko.