2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Recently, in my work, I have begun to use parables and metaphors more often. Any problematic situation can be expressed through a story that will symbolically reflect what a person seems incomprehensible and incomprehensible.
I am often approached by people who are going through crises in family life. The root of these problems is that the responsibility for family troubles is shifted from one's shoulders to the shoulders of a partner. He got up wrong, said, did. Questions: “What are you doing in order to overcome the communication barrier, avoid conflicts, create more comfortable living conditions, develop a sphere of common interests? »I do not want to ask, as these are point-blank questions. It is productive for a person to come to the understanding that a lot in this situation also depends on him. And even more than he can imagine. Therefore, sometimes I use parables in my work. Sometimes, written by someone, and sometimes your own.
I would like to share with you my author's parable "The Family". Maybe it will be useful for you in your work, as well as for me.
"What is family"
The master and his disciple traveled in search of truth. One night I found them in the field. They made a fire and began to prepare supper and lodging for the night.
- Teacher, what is a family? - asked the Pupil.
- Do you see this fire and this pot of food? - asked the Master, - The family is a pot, to which they first added water - Love, then they added potatoes - values, then a carrot - common interests, onions - disagreements, then oil - understanding, necessarily salt - forgiveness, then spices to taste - sexuality - in one family they like it more spicy, in another they like it more aromatic. If all the ingredients are poured into the pot in the right quantities - do not skimp and do not overdo it, then you get a tasty and satisfying brew, and the family will be complete and harmonious.
The teacher removed the pot from the fire and began to pour food into the plates.
- Teacher, but if the cauldron is removed from the fire, the contents in it will cool down, become tasteless and deteriorate over time?
“You are a very attentive student,” the Master remarked. - Like delicious hot food in a pot, the existence of a family depends on how long and regularly someone will toss logs on the fire.
The interpretation of the understood meaning should come only from the client, everyone passes information through their experience, and, of course, reacts and interprets what they hear in different ways. It is advisable to receive feedback and discuss what has been understood in the next session, so that there is time to "understand and think".
In general, after the story of this parable, an understanding of their own responsibility for what happens in the family appeared in everyone who heard it.
Svetlana Ripka
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