Why You Need To Develop Contact With The Family Field

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

An interrupted movement of love or emotional trauma or strong shock may well “cut off” a person from himself, from his true feelings and desires. Then we say that there is no contact with primary feelings, there is no contact with energies, and a person spends most of his life in fantasies and expectations that life will somehow turn itself around and a miracle will happen. Mom will finally understand and love, the husband or wife will come to their senses and ask for forgiveness, a bag of money will fall under their feet, and the boss will appreciate the talent and abilities.

The question “what do you feel now?” Catches many by surprise. Because it is about reality, about contact with life and resources, about the movement of energies. “If I was rejected, then I should be angry,” the person thinks and honestly says “I’m angry,” but when the psychologist or constellator has contact with his primary feelings, he joins the client's Field and feels another energy, for example, sadness. And the unconscious strategy of human behavior - replacing feelings with fantasies, repressing difficult experiences, avoiding contact with reality - begins to manifest itself and become aware. What was invisible and hindered, hindered a person and harmed his life becomes visible and conscious. A new stage of work begins - prescribing new strategies and a mechanism for their implementation into one's life for changes in the area that a person needs.

It is through primary feelings that a person can descend into his own Field and join someone else's, develop clairvoyance and clairsentiment in himself, and restore contact with reality. Understand what is really going on, and not indulge in silly fantasies and self-deception.

All our behavioral strategies, how we build our life and relationships, interact with money and success, handle conflicts - growing up on them or finally falling into a childish position, whether we live through losses and grief resourcefully or fall into long-term and difficult emotional funnels - all this is inherent in the family Field and manifests itself through primary feelings.

If there is a lot of sadness and bitterness in a person's life, but at the same time he does not feel them, but lives surrogately - through alcohol, situations of a victim and an aggressor, through betrayal and betrayal, he loses his energy and his resources. There are no cardinal changes in life, but everything goes in a circle.

To find a solution: to get out of a repetitive scenario or situations of loss, betrayal, deception, pain, loneliness - it is important to restore contact with your Field, where all those strategies are laid in the unconscious in which a person is stuck at the cost of his failed success and happiness. It is already possible to work with the visible and the conscious.

Any feeling is energy in which a person either sticks and then loses (melancholy, sadness, guilt). Or it moves and then acquires (joy, inspiration, interest). For this, it is important to be able to implement new strategies in your behavior, and therefore in your family Field. It is better to take for oneself and no longer at the expense of another, but on one's own energy and resources, which are in a person's Field and with which he is in contact.