The Beast Inside Me

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

A gentle, calm and soulful man. The soul of the company, a pleasant companion, agreeable and well feels the mood of another.

All this concerns his communication with strangers, not too close people.

But even strangers often feel a strange, subtle anxiety next to him … It’s like an understanding that you have to behave with him only as calmly and restrained as he himself… otherwise it’s not clear what is different… but it’s not worth it. Although at first glance, he is seen as happy and peaceful, as if nothing can make him mad.

And people close to such a man live in a constant sense of an invisible guard who vigilantly monitors the implementation of unspoken rules. And it seems that these rules are rational and do not constrain anyone. But it is scary to break them, as much as the stomach and spirals in the chest. It is forbidden. Impossible.

And the rules don't change. Never. And time passes, and people change, and external circumstances require flexibility. And the rules don't change.

This is because these rules guarantee a relatively calm life for such a man. Only in them does he feel self-confidence.

The rules help create a cage from which the Beast will not escape.

This Beast lives inside him. And he is afraid of the Beast. He is very strong, often cruel, aggressive, capable of even killing, perhaps. The beast cannot be controlled, it can only be subdued.

And you can subdue only by locking, hiding. To hide, you need a cage and clear and understandable rules.

You cannot break the rules, otherwise the Beast will have a chance to break out.

And this is scary. Then all life will go to hell.

So this man thinks and so builds his life.

And why am I writing about a man? After all, there are such a dime a dozen women around.

It's just that I have seen a lot of such men over the past year - in my life and in my office.

Such a man suffers. He is constantly alert, tense, ready to attack all the time - what if the Beast breaks out? He's so tired, he's worn out. After all, he cannot relax, let go of everything from his strong hands. Wild anxiety comes if a man tries to do it. And how to gain strength and smile freely if you have to maintain the world order all the time so that the cell does not open.

And if such a man comes to my office, then with one request - to learn to be happy, relax, relax, not take care of everything in the world, to become satisfied with life, finally. Because everything in his life is there. But there is no joy and strength … And there is no peace. Combat readiness is eternal.

And the answer is so simple. But it is very scary to fulfill it.

You need to get to know the Beast, get to know it better, tame it.

No, what are you! You can't tame him! Wild!

He's wild, wild … But for some reason he came to you. He came long ago to save and help. Remember.

And this is where the fun begins. It turns out that the Beast is not an enemy. The man himself once called the Beast, and then he was frightened by his power. And I decided to lock it up.

And the Beast needs something: respect, recognition and a lawn where you can safely frolic without hurting anyone. And then he will be a faithful friend by your side, who, like then long ago in the past, will be ready to help and will not harm.

And the cage becomes unnecessary. And you just need respect and recognition of yourself, your Beast, your tandem.