Network Haters

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

"You're all lying!"

"With such an ass, not only in a swimsuit, in a bag, and that is a shame to go out to people."

"And this is a psychologist? Nonsense!"

Sound familiar?

Sometimes it is enough just to be a person, to have your own opinion, a civil position, to be an expert in some issue or a public figure. Even if you are just gaining popularity, if your posts on social networks are of interest, if you are a frequent visitor to profile groups and forums, you should know that you are under surveillance. Haters sticky like fish spinning around large fish. Well, or about those who could potentially become one. Because the hater is not able to walk on his own. Its goal is success and recognition, built on your bones. After all, the purpose of the hater's actions is in the name itself. This is hate for the sake of hate. Malice for the sake of malice. Hype for the hype.

The haters' motto is to crap what you can, and distort the rest. They masterly pervert meaning, ignore logic and facts, cling to the slightest hint of weakness and do not calm down until they involve as many people as possible in the squabble. They are especially pleased when friends and subscribers come to defend the author. After all, for the sake of attention, everything was started.

It would seem that the only logical way to get rid of a hater is to kill by blocking the account. But there is no guarantee that the very next day he will not return under a new name. He doesn't care what you write about - he doesn't read it. He does not give a damn about the depth of thought, structure and style, he does not represent opposition, is not a subtle connoisseur of beauty, and justice is least of all important to him. Hayter needs an object to displace his own projections - after all, most often it is an embittered loser filled with negativity. He himself, of course, has a very high opinion of his own person - he wants significance and recognition, but the hater is not able to achieve them with his own talent. Therefore, he goes the other way - his goal is to trample into the mud the one who already has it all, bury it under a thick layer of shit and sit on top, admiring the result.

Hayter needs attention - any attention! Therefore, when you are led to provocation, insulting in response or showing aggression, you are doing exactly what it was all about - feed your pursuer. When it seems to you that you are brilliantly parrying an attack, you just give the hater new and new strings for which he will pull you. Therefore, the only way to solve the problem is to ignore. Invisibility is what the hater fears most. After all, he needs some movement, he longs for recognition, seeks to become your shadow, and if he is lucky, then a nightmare.

Whatever the haters themselves think of themselves, in fact they are lazy, flawed people who are angry at their own inability to realize their dreams and aspirations. Among them, of course, there are people who are mentally unhealthy, but there are many more who feel unfairly deprived and deeply offended. However, instead of understanding motives, changing and developing, haters prefer to bully online, taking out their anger on the successful and worthy.

Why are network haters dangerous for mere mortals? In general, nothing - as long as their hatred remains within the Internet space. As a rule, these people hide behind fake profiles and nicknames, without a photo on their avatars. The only thing that someone else's negative can threaten you with is a spoiled mood and an unpleasant aftertaste. So, if you do not intend to use haters for your own purposes, ignore the very fact of their existence. Is it easy? Not really. Especially if you are emotional, insecure and dependent on the opinions of others. Haters like vultures sense your weaknesses and are great at playing them, because where you have a conscience and principles, they have a computer keyboard and hatred.

What to do? Work on yourself, learn to understand people and their motivations, and distinguish those with whom a constructive discussion is possible from those who just came to feast on you. As the Americans say, pick your battles. Not all controversies are worth getting involved. Lack of attention kills cheaters faster than the sunshine of vampires. Checked. And with the rest of the requests - welcome to personal therapy:)