How Does A Resource Come To The Family System Through Recreation?

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

When there was a lot of violence, loss, disease, guilt and shame in the family system, then energy problems in a person's life are inevitable.

It takes energy to have a family

It takes energy to give birth and raise children

To develop a business, you need energy

Going to Work Needs Energy

It takes energy to make a career

It takes energy to be healthy

To take movement from loneliness to the goal - you need energy

You need energy to be creative.

It takes energy to make decisions

Just to love you need energy

Where does it come from if a person and his system are exhausted?

Perhaps through rest.

This, of course, is not about beer at the TV, not about hanging out in social networks. networks, not about shopping and nightclubs - all this is about draining the time of your life.

Here is the message: “I don’t know how to manage my life, it’s easier for me to merge it on social networks, TV, shopping and clubs. I'm just a victim of eternal circumstances. I enjoy the fact that others are in control of the time of my life."

I'm talking about a completely different vacation. In which there is an exchange - emotions, impressions, views. In which there is a discovery of a new thing, which before a person did not see, did not know, and did not think about this. In which a person passes through himself diversity, the flow of life, interest in everything that surrounds him. Rest, where there is interaction with something different, different, not familiar - culture, tradition, people, food, sports, locality.

Contact with new things, interest, amazement, variety, and it triggers so much needed exchange with other people and systems. And then a resource comes into the field, which you can already dispose of at your own discretion - either drain it, or make a new decision, perform a new action.

Often, after such a rest, something can change in life - work, business, partner, meeting or parting, new ideas and thoughts are introduced into the business. Someone goes in a new direction, someone decides on a family, someone looks at their partner differently, someone enters the flow, someone plunges into inner work, sets new goals. There are already forces for all this.

Energy is enriched on a personal and systemic level. Movement starts inside a person. Growth begins.

To be on the move or to be on the couch is a choice that costs life.

And yes, it is not at all necessary to rush for distant lands, you can also at home, in your own country, the main thing is to allow yourself a rest, and not to tick the "vacation was."

Tune in to variety, to new, to something else. Align yourself with the flow of life and be surprised - beauty, sea, mountains, trees, architecture, people, other thoughts and feelings unfamiliar to you.

Go beyond the usual, beyond the red flags, turn to your freedom, to your desires and amaze yourself. Relax and liberate yourself, surrender to pleasure, without which the transition to a new level of life or relationships is impossible.