What Is An Alternate Role And What Are Its Benefits?

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Many people still wonder how strangers who do not have any information about the client, entering his field, begin to voice feelings and states, and then unfold stories that took place in real life. This is called the “substitute perception phenomenon”.

I started my experience as a constellator with a substitute perception. I liked to experience feelings and to be in roles, to say permissive phrases. I never had a fear that "something will stick to me", "something will leave with me." And I have never seen or heard anything like this happen to anyone.

I quickly noticed that everything that I lived as a substitute - grief, loss, murder, disappointment, violence, deception, betrayal, loneliness, madness, illness, symptom, gas chamber, concentration camp - all this resonated within me. as if it had something to do with my life. Of course, I never crossed paths with the clients who were given the constellation, but sharing my impressions with other deputies, I understood that the same thing was happening to them. One of the deputy roles has become generally key for me.

I treated money very badly, I despised money around me, money in the world and my own money. I despised the rich and successful, millionaires and businessmen, considering them all thieves and scoundrels. I turned away from the enormous power, devaluing and belittling it. There was a conviction inside me:

- hard work, blood and sweat get money, and there is no other way.

- honest people do not have easy and quick money.

I was chosen to play the role of an ordinary woman, the wife of a Soviet officer, who always had money. And she loved them, humanly warm and touching. In the substitutionary office, I literally reveled in this love; I saw nothing terrible, terrible or disgusting in money. Money is good, money is always an opportunity, a new quality of life and security. It inspired me and inspired me so much that I was ready to go and move mountains right now. Even the inspiration itself surprised me, such an emotional experience of living was completely new for me, and within the framework of my family system, it was absolutely inaccessible. But for another family system, in which I got a deputy, this experience was normal, and women and men had respect for money, and beliefs lived in their system:

- money can come easily and quickly.

- money is pleasure and joy, it is the fulfillment of desires.

The inspiration that I lived turned me on to the topic of money in my life, I had a revolution in my consciousness. Later, while studying constellations, I realized that that substitute role had opened a resource, or rather included it in my system, thanks to which I began to search for a solution to ancestral prohibitions and family secrets that separated me from money.

I was chosen for those roles and I lived those feelings that were relevant to my family system, because they were excluded, forgotten, rejected and demanded their decision, inclusion, become visible and lived.

It was through substitutional perception that I began to develop contact and the ability to recognize primary feelings, to build contact with the field of my generic system and the Knowing Field (Bert Hellinger's term)

So, the benefits (buns) of substitute perception:

1. There is an opportunity to get a completely new emotional experience, which until now for some reason was not available
2. Living someone else's experience of feelings and states, you can then introduce it into your life
3. Through substitutionary perception, one's own life strategies are manifested, that is, they are brought to the level of awareness - emotional conflicts, Shadow, Anima and Animus
4. You find yourself in those generic dynamics that are relevant to your system and require your permission (especially where there is violence, alcohol and drug addiction, hard fates or prison sentences)

Do not miss the opportunity to gain new emotional experience, develop your contact with primary feelings, and most importantly, live them (after all, the very first thing that we repress is feelings), this will help you to establish contact with the birth field, of which you are a part. …