2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
This is not about dominance and submission, although such black and white shades are present in relationships. These are reflections on what should not be allowed in communication with a partner, rejection, value judgments about your personality and actions.
If something like this starts between a man and a woman, don't expect anything good. Undoubtedly, bright displays of emotions are not always within the power to constantly maintain in communication. There are various reasons and circumstances that interfere with pure joy in love.
And some even relish feelings of extreme coloring: strong passion, or the tension from ignoring, devaluing a partner. But this is already akin to pathology. It is about a woman's ability and desire to maintain a positive attitude and feel her own worth, regardless of the man's opinion, and even from its presence in her life.
Allow yourself the courage to abstract, to feel your independence with every fiber of your soul. In other words, do not allow yourself to work, do not allow yourself to buy into the, sometimes very controversial, prospect of love and affection.
Many women are eagerly led to smug male speech. She seemed to be living for herself, well, almost happily. She had everything: study, work, close relatives, hobbies. And suddenly, like a devil from a snuff-box, he appears. And off we go.
A lady, as a rule, just finding herself in complete shit, looks around in surprise and asks herself the question: "What was that?" How could I allow myself to be so deceived, how could I believe in obvious deception and manipulation? But everything has already happened, life has been thoroughly destroyed, its values have been scattered. And there is a long process of gathering and gluing yourself in pieces ahead.
Agree, sometimes it's worth risking a possible fall instead of trying to fly. Although simple banal schemes of life are not so bad - albeit without distressing feelings, but also without mental trauma inflicted by a loved one. Weigh for yourself: is it worth buying relatively valuable experiences at the expense of self-destruction.
Bright colors in life have a place to be. As well as various experiments in relationships. If only then you could reanimate yourself, be able to leave the gray swamp of emotional dependence in time.
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