2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Following the trainings, I wanted to touch on one of the aspects of the group's work.
Each group is a separate organism. Each group is different. And each group has a choice. And now, probably, about the choice and I want to talk
Everything that will be written below will most likely be addressed to those who ask themselves the question - "should I go to this training or not?"
Whom to go - I usually write in the invitation to the training. Today about who is not recommended training in general, and, in particular, my closest:)
So, you DO NOT NEED TO COME to the training …
1) If you are determined that you will be hypnotized, encoded, anchored, enlisted and something else "- yat". None of this will happen.
2) If you are waiting for the presenter to make magic passes with magic hands over your head, say the magic phrase - "sim-sim" - and on the same day, or evening, or one hour you will become different - new, pretty, etc. … …
The host will not tell you this. Which road to take after the training is your choice.
3) If you have gone through a bunch of NLP trainings, you know what PPL is, and also, if you expect the words and actions you already know from the presenter, then you need to go to a different address.
4) If you know better what and how the presenter should speak, what timbre of his voice, where to inhale, and where to exhale, where to lower his voice, and where to raise, then you should go to another training, perhaps in vocal skill or oratorical art. Or maybe your calling is to be a teacher in a music school. Why not:)
5) If you, like air, need interpretations of the presenter, explanations of every word said by each participant, and suddenly not everyone understood what he wanted to say, and then the presenter will come to the fore and tell everyone how to live right …
This is also somewhere else, perhaps on a different floor.
6) If the office where the training is held is 7 stops from your home, and you only move a distance of 4 stops, there is no need to make unnecessary movements. Save energy - it will come in handy in cold winter:)
7) If you yourself know - what, where, when, why, how much, how it should be, how it shouldn't, how is it better, etc. - you also don't need to attend our training. Perhaps in the game “What? Where? When? you will find a better use for yourself, and you will earn extra money.
8) If you came to tell the presenter who he really is and how he will live further, perhaps you should look for a more grateful audience? We don't even have a podium and no tribune either, and the presenter sits on the same chair as all the participants.
9) If there is no place for gratitude in your life, you will not get results here.
10) If you want to show your mind, do not demand it, here it will remain unclaimed.
11) And also, if you are going to sit for three days in the mask “I smile. I'm fine,”while clenching his teeth from the fact that both the presenter and everything that is happening here are annoying. Don't waste your energy. Either you take off your mask or continue to live your usual life in a mask.
Our whole life is a continuous series of elections. You can focus on the surrounding space, turn away from yourself, try to place the bag of responsibility for your life on someone who is nearby.
Or you can turn to yourself, look into yourself, allow yourself to be real, allow yourself to be any of your feelings, allow yourself to meet what can be painful, unpleasant, which can pour out with tears. Allow yourself to meet yourself and new experiences. It can be tricky. But, this is the only way changes are possible.
If, after reading what you have read, you still go to the training, amazing discoveries await you.
And now, smile:) and make a Choice. And the leader of the training promises a non-judgmental, safe environment, will help and support on this difficult path - changes …
See you at the training.
Lyubitskaya Oksana
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