What Women Overlook When Choosing Men

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Most women who are not in a relationship or who have difficulty choosing a partner have their own well-established model of presentation and behavior with a man. In many ways, it is focused on creating an outwardly attractive image. In many sources, you can find calls for a woman to be bright, noticeable and provoking a man. Then, and this is the main condition, she will be popular among men and have many fans, with all the following conclusions. Undoubtedly, a spectacular-looking woman attracts attention in herself. But often women themselves have an internal dissonance and dissatisfaction with the quality of those men who appear in the environment. The fact is that some women express wishes related to the fact that a man is more interested in them as a person.

Men are different, respectively, for all the similarity of tastes, for each some specific characteristic of a woman will be important. That is why it often happens that a man, for whom the appearance and showiness of a woman are the main ones, does not strive very much to find out the inner world of a woman. It is quite enough for him that next to him there is an attractive female person who supports his image and self-esteem quite well. Such men, in most cases, tend to use women more for their own purposes, although at the same time they can demonstrate a caring attitude. Gifts, moreover, are expensive, for such men are often a confirming factor of their self-esteem and a reason to brag. In other words, it is important for him to show others that he has “candy in a beautiful and bright wrapper”.

Attempts by a woman to behave defiantly with a man and provoke him can only be justified by ignorance of male psychology. The formed myth that a man will strive to conquer such a woman does not strongly coincide with reality. Almost every woman wants to find a serious, emotionally mature and adequate man. So, a man with the stated set of qualities simply will not "butt" with a woman in response to her provocations. These men have completely different views on what constitutes female attractiveness. As a rule, such men are well off, but they are few in percentage. For them, softness, tenderness and beauty will be defining in a woman, and not pressure and impetuosity. Such men are not interested in competition in a pair or the performance of whims; for such a type, it is precisely the care and desire to learn new things in a woman that are more characteristic.

Each woman, choosing a man, is guided by her desires and ideas about what she wants to see a relationship. But it is worth remembering that choice always means giving up something else. There is no other way in our world. Therefore, there are so many problems with making this choice and even more with accepting its consequences. People do not always make the right choice based on the rationality of the brain, sometimes feelings can become the best advisor.

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Anton Chernykh.