2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
The relationship between a man and a woman is always a dynamic process, while the direction and fullness of their development depends on both participants. But it often happens that men choose women with whom they have no relationship at all, or these relationships are extremely unhealthy. Because it is the influence and contribution of a woman to a relationship that determines how warm and tender they will be. There are women with whom, as a rule, men cannot build relationships, even if they really want to.
It happens that a woman looks very good, she is well-groomed, dresses with taste. Most men like these women. But at the same time, she is constantly busy and elusive. Such a woman may well have a favorite job, to which she gives herself completely. Her employment can be regarded by others as a positive quality, but at the same time in relationships such women often demonstrate an inability to build them. Women of this type are poorly suited to cohabitation. For them, the main thing will be not just the achievement of some professional heights, with the presentation of their solvency to others, but the ability to compensate for their inability to love with the help of this.
Usually such persons seem unapproachable, this circumstance provokes some men to try to win such a woman. In most cases, these attempts end in disappointment on the male side, since a man does not receive warmth from such a woman in the course of a relationship, and this is very important for a strong half. Such women most often can only love themselves, and then for some specific achievements. In a relationship with such a woman, a man will have to constantly prove something to her and try to catch up with her. Women of this type tend to either enjoy the fact that she is alone, or complain that there are no worthy men in her environment.
If such a woman has a child, then of course she loves him. But at the same time, he can use his existence as proof of his achievements and successes. An object in order to show everyone that she is successful not only in her profession. It is extremely important for them to demonstrate their success. Since she combines several social roles at once, she is a mother, a worker, and an attractive woman. She, of course, likes the attention from men, but at the same time, her own comfort remains the most important for her. One of the distinguishing features of such women is that they cannot take care of their partner, and if they do, they are very burdensome. Learning to love for such women is very difficult, because it requires leaving their personal comfort zone, so they prefer not to change anything in themselves. Often, such women are prone to frequent changes of partners in the hope of finding the very ideal that could make her loving and beloved, but the reality is a harsh thing and most often such women are left alone.
For men in a relationship, care, warmth and tenderness from a partner are always important. Therefore, it is worth paying more attention to the attitude of which particular woman a man will take actions in order to build relationships.
Live with joy! Anton Chernykh
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