My Comfort Zone, My Bad Habit

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Should you leave your comfort zone, change the usual course of life?

Look around you, observe what events are happening around you, what people are in your environment; Scan your actual feelings and desires. Feelings are dulled, desires remain only desires, you are stuck, stuck in the usual course of life, albeit not very high-quality, but so convenient.

Over the years, we have been creating our own comfort zone, attracting friends and acquaintances who are convenient for us, forming a living environment for ourselves. Comfort zone - it is not always heaven on earth, the comfort zone is the environment in which we are used to living, for one reason or another. For everyone it has its own, someone is recklessly loved and pampered, someone is shamelessly mocked and humiliated, someone goes with the flow, hands down, and someone stubbornly struggles with obstacles, moving in the wrong direction.

And why, yes, because it has always been like this, as long as we can remember.

Once upon example, and taking into account the most favorable life situations, having assumed the role of Egoist, sacrifices, pofigista, lazy, a fighter for the validity of such roles, for everyone, we simply hid from our true essence. It’s scary to be yourself, and suddenly they don’t accept, don’t understand, don’t love, but what to say, often We don’t accept ourselves, don’t understand and don’t love, how can we expect this from others.

Living life in its permanent cell of comfort leads to the fading of development. We seem to fall into a lethargic sleep and live and do not live. Without development and movement forward, the soul fades away, We lose the meaning of life.

Personality crises just fall into a period of stagnation of personal development, the absence of qualitative life changes and movement forward. But, unfortunately, not many people can properly take advantage of such a crisis, the moment of getting out of sleep and the state of wide-open eyes. Some of us have enough inner resources and strength to get out of the comfort zone and accept qualitatively new life changes, others need a helping hand, support for a smooth transition from one state to another, but this also requires inner strength and a desire to change our lives, to develop. And, of course, there are those who, again, are comfortable with suffering, feeling sorry for themselves about how bad life is, how tired of everything, talking about the need for cardinal changes and absolutely nothing to do for themselves.

The driving force behind our sticking to a comfortable life, in our comfort zone, is FEAR. Fear makes you give up your dreams, give up yourself, your desires. We are afraid of change, we are afraid of the unknown. Fear fetters, disarms, corners, makes you doubt.

You can fight with fear, and the most important thing in this fight is to realize your fear and accept it. It is natural to be afraid, each of us has our own fear, and this is normal. Having realized and accepted our fear, having learned its habits, We will destroy it from the inside without any problems and take a colossal step forward towards our true self!

Developing, discovering, conquering new horizons, whether in personal life, or in the profession, meeting new people, We give ourselves a chance to become happy.