2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
An excerpt from the new book by Danielle Report "Live with feeling"
1. Identify the most important why
Why are you doing what you are doing? After all, not only to make a lot of money, to bring a new product to the market, or to please people. Hold on to the truest, most compelling reason why you want to get things done. For example, it could be improving the living conditions of others, raising awareness, spreading love, helping a child get an education, or being able to feel good about themselves.
2. Be clear about your hunger
What exactly do you desire so passionately to achieve your goal? The answer to this question has a lot to do with your true desired feelings. Are you really ready to feel freedom, feel your strength, turn the ugly into the beautiful? Was this why you were born? Maybe your finest hour has struck, damn it ?! Are you frustrated and angry? You no longer intend to put up with all sorts of nonsense and play a secondary role? Won't you let someone dictate when you can go on vacation? Or how?
Take a deep breath. Get your composure back. Good. If the question of why you do what you do infuriates you, then you are in contact not only with your hunger, but also with your instincts for survival. And they will be very useful to you.
You need to feel hungry. You need to desperately desire. When working with entrepreneurs, I noticed that those who were not “obligated to work” or who considered their work more a hobby than a necessity, usually worked with less enthusiasm than those who were forced to earn an apartment or felt a call to their business. …
Desire so much that you are absolutely convinced that what you want is necessary.
3. Realistically estimate the resources required to achieve the desired
Perhaps there is no other concept in the world that would be understood as wrongly as the concept of "being realistic." Therefore, it must be interpreted and used with extreme caution. If you apply “realistic thinking” to your dreams, you may end up ruining them with a single silly “realistic” thought. I don’t want that to happen.
Realistic thinking plays a huge role when you are just starting to define your intentions. First, a big dream is born in your heart: "I will create something extremely useful, what this world needs so much!" Well, great! Then our extremely useful brain intervenes and asks, "So what is your intention really?" And you indicate your intention: "To start doing something extremely useful from such and such a number." So realism is best applied not to the size or content of one's intentions and goals, but to the specific details of their implementation. Dream like an eagle, plan like a mouse.
It is at this stage that many intentions and goals go out of the way. We aim at great things, we are even able to imagine their result in the smallest detail, but we are not able to appreciate the hard work and the sacrifices that we will certainly have to make. Achieving a goal can require many compromises and sacrifices. Rises with sunrise, the inability to attend the birthdays of loved ones, a vacation spent within four walls instead of a trip to an exotic country. Calluses and bruises. Work late, gluten free, no TV. Long daily commutes to and from work, diminishing savings. Job's patience, the tenacity of a locomotive.
Sounds funny, right? But in reality, if you are moving towards your dream, sacrifices can even be pleasant, because they are not perceived as sacrifices, but as stepping stones on the path to the goal. Okay, sometimes these steps seem too high, sometimes even so high that you need a separate staircase, but still you are ready to climb them. Be that as it may, it is better to foresee the difficulties - as much as possible. And then when you meet them, you will not go too far off course.
An honest view of difficulties will not force you to retreat or lower your energy level. He will help you keep your mind clear and strengthen your spirit.
The excerpt was provided by the publishing house "Mann, Ivanov and Ferber"
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